Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

this chick I know and I were talking on messenger and she mentioned how tired she was.
so I offered her a pillow and blanket through action quotes.
she declined and then for fun(and only because she seemed not to take things too seriously and has been having some men troubles)I said in action quotes heres a vibrator.
now, it sounds a little weird..but she had mentioned in a survey that said she didn't mind scratching her own bum whenever.
the problem laid in the fact that she has been having trouble giving men happiness w/o giving her body.
so.. after i said my statement, she immediately said good night.
I did send her a message later apologizing.
I normally don't just say things like that if people have those kind of problems..I am incredibly sensitive to those type of things..it's just hard to get used to i guess..so any ideas how to fix it?
she didn't reply to my message.

2006-11-12 11:57:38 · 6 answers · asked by a_aramirez 1 in Friends

I've known W for 5 yrs. He went to the college that I go 2 but W finished in 03. I saw him in NY in 02 & when I was in London he was there doing his MSc. We went out as a group twice-I had a BF. I think he liked me but he made no move. I saw his # in my phone after he had it, I know I didn't have the # b4. Now he's a tutor in my dept.

On wedn. I saw W on campus walking toward me, I said hi. He asked me to get his car bcuz he was trying 2 dodge students (he got it himself). He asked how I was doing. I said 'Personally, bad; school-wise, good'. W said 'You should call me'. I told him that he has my # & he said he's not a phone person. I asked if he prefers to talk in person, he said yes. Again, he said I should call him. I'm scared. There's a chance he'll be 1 of my tutors next semester. Oh, my uncle is the Head of Dept & he's his boss. He's 24 - I'm 23, hot, nice & plans to do his law degree soon. My city is small so if some1 saw us hanging out I know people would talk. Thoughts?

2006-11-12 11:57:12 · 2 answers · asked by Kailee 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 11:56:39 · 8 answers · asked by stevieeee12000 2 in Singles & Dating

He always try's to make me laugh and smile. He looks at me all the time. he talk's to me every day. Do you think he likes me?

2006-11-12 11:56:39 · 4 answers · asked by Beckerzz(: 2 in Singles & Dating

His ex love calls alot on occassion (for the past couple years) and she called again last night at midnight (again) on a night I normally wouldn't be with my honey (again..not the 1st time)....I think thats a bad sign....what do you think?

2006-11-12 11:56:32 · 3 answers · asked by redheaded 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so theres this really mean girl at my school. She thinks I am wierd, she starts rumors about me, and she talks bad about me all the time. I dont necessarily care about what she thinks, but I dont want the whole school to think that I am something Im not. I want to solve things, but everybody seems agensed me, and nobody wants to talk to me anymore. What should I do?

2006-11-12 11:56:27 · 25 answers · asked by jjackkahn 2 in Friends

I'd like to be friends with this boy (let's name him Joe), but how do I become friends with Joe without people thinking that I have a crush on him?

But, I like one of Joe's friends (let's name him Bob). If Bob DID like me back, would Bob be upset that I'm friends with Joe?

2006-11-12 11:56:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my ex and i have been talking pretty much on and off since night before last (he's been the one who's called, unless i've missed one of his, or i said i would), and tonight, he asked me out again. i asked him what brought this up, and he said, '"i miss you."' he was the one who broke up with me! my feelings for him have changed just enough that i don't think we'd do as well as we did together before. i've looked over other guys that i thought were hot, and i like one of them. i want my ex back, but i don't. i don't know what to do! and what does it mean, when he breaks up with you, and then 3 months later, calls and says, "i wanna go out with you again.", and his reason is, "i miss you."?

2006-11-12 11:55:38 · 11 answers · asked by K.D. 3 in Singles & Dating

ever seen the maury show were they do those DNA tests to find out if the guy is the father or not. I saw this woman on there who had just tested her 14th man and she still didnt know who the father was!!! Are they acting or do these women really sleep with that many guys??

2006-11-12 11:55:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just answered someone's question about guys always talking about wanting a "good woman" Well I have a better question. I've always wondered what the answer is to this: What is the difference between a good piece of a. s. s. and bad piece of a. s. s. That's all guys ever talk about.What is the determining factor for guys to feel the difference between this often wondered subject by women, at least me anyway.......???????

2006-11-12 11:55:07 · 8 answers · asked by silhouette 6 in Singles & Dating

My parents are adopting a 16 year old boy, who was taken out of his house that he formally lived in for abuse; and a few other things I guess. Is there anything we (my parents) should do differently?

2006-11-12 11:55:01 · 11 answers · asked by I think... 6 in Family

Im going on my first date with this guy I really like, we've been friends for a while but I like him more than that...im quite nervice ..im not sure why. do you have any sugestions like what movie to see (we are going to the movies) hmmm anything else ...thanks!

2006-11-12 11:54:55 · 16 answers · asked by NK 2 in Singles & Dating

my sister has been walking the house with just bra and panties on.and she knows it drives me crazy.she is 22.but i know sis is off limits. what shall I do?
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2006-11-12 11:54:46 · 10 answers · asked by kaveman15120 4 in Family

so let's say there's this guy Eric. and he is in one of my classes. now i'm really nice to everyone, so i tried being friends with eric this year. and all of a sudden he's helping me with homework, staying after school with me, and he even gave me his phone number and said i should call him if i need more homework help. i doubt he wants anything, cuz he's always staring at me in class too,
right now i was just talking to him online, and he wasn't really replying, so i asked him what was up and he said that he was being distracted, by another girl. so i said he should go talk to her because i'm obviously in the way... and he left. what's that all supposed to mean? he leads me on to only crush me?

2006-11-12 11:54:07 · 9 answers · asked by Maria18 2 in Singles & Dating

Any help would be great.

2006-11-12 11:54:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-12 11:53:55 · 8 answers · asked by Lucky 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-12 11:53:20 · 10 answers · asked by harly_kris 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay me and my bf have been dateing 8months i love him soo much and im scared i'm going to lose him. bc we fight alot and i really dont want to lose him he is the love of my life and i would die without him! pls tell me something we can do to stop all our fights!

2006-11-12 11:53:03 · 14 answers · asked by tyler's baby girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 11:51:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We weren't romantically involved. He is getting married and I am married, but I miss him. How long will my feelings of aggitation last?

2006-11-12 11:51:46 · 5 answers · asked by tiafromtijuana 4 in Friends

I am old fashion and I have always preferred for the guy to make the first move when asking me out. Is it just me or do guys not do that much anymore? I know that it is 2006 and it goes either way and anyone can make a first move,but I am trying to get a guys approach on it. What do you think??

2006-11-12 11:51:31 · 12 answers · asked by chrissyb02girl 1 in Singles & Dating

impotent and has put us in financial trouble. Hes always spacing off doesnt answer you sometimes when spoken to. its like hes in his own world. help what do you think is wrong he doesnt even look at me when im attractive dressed up nothing at all. love life consist of maybe 3 times a year.

2006-11-12 11:51:25 · 9 answers · asked by tiger 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i am married ,love my wife, but need more {sex}

2006-11-12 11:51:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so my friend
told me that she was annoyed
by this girl who I hate.
I obviously agreed to the fact
that she was annoying bc she is!

I told my friend
that the other did some stuff
and it got out!

Now the one girl who me and my friend
think i annoying
is TRYING
to turn all of my friends
against me.

What I told my friend
was true
and the annoying girl
told my friend that I was lying
and that I am ruining everything
and that she should not be my friend.

oh my goodness.
what should I do?

2006-11-12 11:50:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

to get a guy's attention WITHOUT being to slutty. (Just so you know, i'm not preppy. I don't walk around with my belly button showing in a halter top with a mini skirt showing half my ***, so don't even suggest anything like that please.)


~*~ Be SeRiOuS pLeAsE ~*~

2006-11-12 11:50:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I 'm 18 years old and previously went to a concert and met the drummer. He's 36 and seemed really interested in me. During the night he put his head against mine and said "I like you." and before I left he pulled me back and told me "I want to see you again." We did end up making out, but I thought that he wouldn't be interested in me until he gave me his number. I think he's a great guy, but we're 18 years apart, he's in a band, and he lives in Cleveland. I'm all the way in NY. Is it possible he really likes me? Or do you think he is playing a game to get me in bed? I don't know, he said he never goes after girls at concerts.....hard to believe when you're in a band.....

2006-11-12 11:50:38 · 18 answers · asked by elush613 2 in Singles & Dating

If you don't trust someone 100%. If you only trust someone about 80%, Do you think its possible to learn to start trusting that personn 100% again?

2006-11-12 11:49:41 · 13 answers · asked by L F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Theres this girl that we've know eachother since 4th grade. I am in 9th now. We used to ride the bus togehter and sit next to eachother everyday till we graduated. She went to one school and i went to another. We met once over the summer and that was it. We met up for holloween and out of no where she asks me to her winter formal. I'm still trying to figure out if she likes me. All of her frineds know that I like her and she probably knows that i like so is their ways i can find out if she likes me.

2006-11-12 11:49:00 · 7 answers · asked by Brian A 2 in Friends

Why do you like to watch us gymnasts on varsity team practice?? Would you ever date a 5'1 90lb gymnast with brown hair/eyes, and a sweet/kind/caring disposition and a vegetarian?? I do eat but train like 5hrs a day and it burns off.I am a sophmore but am the only 1 on varsity.(I was j.v. last year, cuz i suck.eventho most frosh are on frosh.)
Why is it after our practice all the guys happen to "finish" practice even tho it ended and hr ago?? I don't drive, I run over a mile home to help condition.I have a bmw and lexus.
Guys be honest. I wanna know what you think. Would you also come to our meets to be encouraging and have a real relationship with us?? I don't want a guy to call me fat or n e thing. I get enough of that from the people who aren't me friends.
Please answer!! THANX!!
Would you be ok with ur gf falling asleep in ur arms?? Would you ruin her trust by abusing it?
Would you date a....(see above)

2006-11-12 11:48:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some advice so I can get an idea of how to flirt with this guy that I like without embarassing myself

2006-11-12 11:47:56 · 5 answers · asked by apbudge 1 in Singles & Dating