If you don't trust someone 100%. If you only trust someone about 80%, Do you think its possible to learn to start trusting that personn 100% again?
2006-11-12 11:49:41 · 13 answers · asked by L F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you do not trust someone, there is a reason for it. If the person said a small lie, then you will regain trust. If the lie is major, then regaining trust is unlikely. There is also good reason to believe that a major lie will be repeated.
Take care,
Troy
2006-11-12 11:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From past experience with friends who I have had certain trust issues with, here is what I have found. Depending on age and maturity of the "offender" yes, you can definitely learn to trust someone again. People make a lot of bad judgment calls that are often mainly due to lack of maturity and the integrity that can often come with it. I have several friends I had problems with in out younger days (aka High School and shortly after) that now I would trust with my life absolutely!
However, if this is not the case, I have always believed you do not have to trust someone 100% as long as you know them. In other words knowing you can't trust someone goes a long way in covering that 20%. It's the people you don't know that you can't trust that are the problem!
Best of luck to you!
2006-11-12 19:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by hand banana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if this person hurt you there really is no way to trust 100%....
I do think however if you care for this person you should really give it your all. I know from being hurt that you will always question but if you are able to stick it out and move forward you may find that you start thinking and questioning less.
2006-11-12 19:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by Mellisa C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you've brought the percentage down, that someone must really have tried hard to earn your trust again. It depends if I would give them my trust again. If they did something unforgivable but I love them, then I guess I would trust them less and time will ease the pain so I will go back to trust again..
2006-11-12 19:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by not in denial 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. u can.
Trust is not that comes just by sight. It comes as u mingle with them and get the know them. Anything u trust about a person at first time is not 100%.. it takes time...
2006-11-12 20:20:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think YOU have to learn anything, trust is something that is earned. You have to believe that person can change and never throw it back in their face in an argument. Forgive and forget is key. Otherwise don't bother.
2006-11-12 19:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by faeriemagik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I truely believe that trust can be regained but it takes a lot of work and time. It's not something that will happen over night.
2006-11-12 19:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take alot of time it won't just happen over night. Once trust is broke so hard to regain it.
2006-11-12 22:16:48 · answer #8 · answered by mommys_girl1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never 100%.
2006-11-12 19:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk thts hard i thought i cud trust my cuz but i don't know and i sort of said **** bout one of my other cuz (saying tht she cud be a ***** sometimes and **** lyk tht) and i think they've been talking cuz i saw a pic of them 2gether on myspace and they're not tht close lol but my point yea i know how you feel when you think you cud trust sum1 then you find out u can't it makes you mad and hurts especially when they're like the only cuz ur a reject and everybody thinks ur wierd so u pretty much have no friends...lol u shud try testing them or not trust them at all i guess
2006-11-13 22:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by mamama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋