Ok, so theres this really mean girl at my school. She thinks I am wierd, she starts rumors about me, and she talks bad about me all the time. I dont necessarily care about what she thinks, but I dont want the whole school to think that I am something Im not. I want to solve things, but everybody seems agensed me, and nobody wants to talk to me anymore. What should I do?
2006-11-12 11:56:27 · 25 answers · asked by jjackkahn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Kick her as$.
2006-11-12 11:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by Hi 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Well, this is definitely a time to find out who your true friends are - the ones that believe the rumors and never talk to you again aren't your real friends, but the ones who ask you first if the rumors are true ARE your real friends and you should keep those ones close. I know exactly what you're going through - I had the same problems, well, since kindergarten until now, 12th grade, which is ridiculous for anyone to have to go through. I can tell you, though, for a fact, that if you beat up the person, you will gain much more respect, especially from the people who are too stupid to think for themselves and just go along with the flow...also, I suppose that your actions should be something to affect the rumors, and in that case, I would have to know exactly what rumors are being started. And, of course, you can always fight fire with fire...I know it's wrong, but it's more fun than always being the *** of the jokes.
2006-11-12 12:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her and people who believe her. If you just ignore her she will soon move on to the next person who bugs her. If you try to solve things it will just make it worse. She is the one in the wrong not you. You just think everyone is against you. I'm sure there are people who know what kind of person she is and don't believe her. She is just insecure about who she is and picks on you so she can feel big and bad. Ignore the MEAN GIRL. If it gets dangerous for you (like she trys to start fights with you )then tell a teacher or the Principal. Believe me she will give up it just won't seem fast enough I'm sure. Good Luck
2006-11-12 12:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by smile4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh Sweetie. Just know that this will be over soon. Everyone says High School years are the best. This is so untrue. I hated H.S. I was miserable. This girl is probably a very unhappy person underneath. I know that sounds like a cliche, but its true. She may be so unhappy with something about herself that she feels she must take the attention off of herself by starting a rumor about you. If it is anyone worth associating with, they will see through her. If they fall for it, they are just like her or want to be just like her and they are in no way worth it. You will be gone soon and she will remain with herself forever.
2006-11-12 12:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you bring attention to it the more she likes it.
Try to ignore it and if your friends tell you something she has said about you then just reply with "it is so sad that she is so mean and has to pick on someone?". Leave it at that and don't say another word. She will realize she is not getting to you and find someone else to pick on.
2006-11-12 12:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From past advice, it is said to ignore the bully and the bully will eventually get bored and move on. If you want to salvage your reputation, just don't add to the commotion. Wait 'til things die then then speak up. It's hard to speak up in a noisy crowd of dissenting opinions,trying to defend yourself at once, facing everybody.
2006-11-12 11:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by not in denial 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that she's a miserable little *****. Then move on and ignore the rumors. High school is hell, but this little **** will probably just end up pregnant and stuck is some miserable situation. Don't let her bring you down. Obviously, she sees something good and intimidating in you, otherwise she would be looking to put you down.
2006-11-12 11:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by wildkitty822003 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
These things happen easier when you don't know everyone very well. Get to know those people and make a good impression on them pronto. One way is not to talk about the girl and subtly show them those things are not true without even having to address those things.
2006-11-12 11:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You sound like a really good person..And it sucks to read your pain because I've been there...It won't be easy, but my best advice is be yourself...And be better than the dramatic liars surrounding you at school.
Best Of Luck
2006-11-12 12:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by secret s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are alot of people like this, the only thing is that it is hard to get around it. more than likely she is jelous the only thing i could tell u to do is dont let her know it bothers you, if you havent already and try to talk to people who are against you and maybe theyll turn against her that is usually how it goes, i have been through things somewhat like this (im in 10th grade), hope this kinda helped, srry
2006-11-12 12:00:53 · answer #10 · answered by meg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should go to that mean girl and tell her why she is making rumors and lies about you. Stand up for yourself.
2006-11-12 13:04:18 · answer #11 · answered by Teresa M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋