this chick I know and I were talking on messenger and she mentioned how tired she was.
so I offered her a pillow and blanket through action quotes.
she declined and then for fun(and only because she seemed not to take things too seriously and has been having some men troubles)I said in action quotes heres a vibrator.
now, it sounds a little weird..but she had mentioned in a survey that said she didn't mind scratching her own bum whenever.
the problem laid in the fact that she has been having trouble giving men happiness w/o giving her body.
so.. after i said my statement, she immediately said good night.
I did send her a message later apologizing.
I normally don't just say things like that if people have those kind of problems..I am incredibly sensitive to those type of things..it's just hard to get used to i guess..so any ideas how to fix it?
she didn't reply to my message.
2006-11-12 11:57:38 · 6 answers · asked by a_aramirez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she lives in another state.
2006-11-12 12:01:41 · update #1
the message was sent via mail and all i know was did read it.
2006-11-12 12:03:48 · update #2
hello
2006-11-12 11:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by Cristina P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How bout telling her exactly what you said here? You know it was insensitive, you're sorry,.... and you just don't know why you said it. Sounds like it was nothing more than an off-handed joke, and you said it before you thought about what you were saying,.... you're only human, and it happens. The fact that you recognize what you've done and you feel so badly about it shows you genuinely care and that your apology is heart-felt. You can't really do much more than that.... I'd forgive you... and if her friendship is important to you, then keep trying.
2006-11-12 20:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Email and apologize. If she was really offended, she probably put you on ignore and never got your apology IM. If she doesnt respond to the email, chalk it up to experience and dont make the same mistake again. Remember to think before responding/talking. :) I know you probably feel really bad, but it's not the end of the world. She may of been in a touchy mood and will contact you soon.
2006-11-12 20:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Meli 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The damage is done, learn your lesson and think next time. Our words are really important, watch what you say. Apologize!
2006-11-12 20:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just talk it out to her face to face. talking on the computer sucks cuz you cant read their emotions
2006-11-12 20:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Angie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i.m. her and tell her that you were very stupid and would like to continue the friendship.
2006-11-12 19:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋