My gf of 3 years broke up with me last week and iam trying to fix the problem.Thing is she is not willing to forgive me for what i have done, i didnot cheat btw way.I work weekend night at my job, and sometimes its hard to get a day off.She had a very serious accident a couple of months back and after the accident she feels like i was not there for her, which i was but i also had a job to do aswell.she feels like the relationship has been failing over time and she made a decision to leave me. Her reason is she is trying to be a big girl and do something right for herself and her daughter, trying to change her ways.She also said that i put her on the back burner and put my car in front of her.which is total bs because i love her sooooo much, i even told her if she felt that i loved the car more than her i would get ride of it in a heartbeat.I love this women to death, and i have tried everything to show her i love her.But when i ask for a second chance she says i made up my mind, helpme
2006-11-12 12:46:59 · 5 answers · asked by j3ffw 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know there is more and i am forgeting somethings,but this is what she told me today when i went to see her, this is my first real relationship and i told her i'm sorry and iam trying my best to do whats right.If i have to sell my car to get her back then so be it,its gone i can't afford to loss her. God i wish the pain would go away, i just want a second chance to show her i really lover her and i have intentions to propose to her on christmas. Iam a moron for letting this happen
2006-11-12 12:59:02 · update #1
god I love her soooo much and i wish she would see that iam willing to change to be what she wants, a good man. reda if your reading this iam sorry honey, i know things have been rocky but i love you with all of my heart please give me a second chance.
2006-11-12 13:51:18 · update #2
Do you REALLY want her back? Are you willing to do anything?
Sell your car.
Show her your post here on Yahoo Answers.
And ask her to marry you, if you're that serious. Sounds like she's been going through alot, and has made some decisions that she wants the relationship to go a step further.
I know this sounds very dramatic. And it is. But if you're TRULY serious about getting her back, then these are some things you might want to try.
2006-11-12 12:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so long story short shes feelin neglected and she wants ur attention. ive had this problem wit my boyfriend and weve been together for 2 years. but i would never break up wit him cuz i dont get ALL of his attention when i want it. thats stupid. so i would wonder if the attention thing is her only problem. but if thats the only problem that she has and ure willin to go the distance to get her back i would sell the car. not jus to get rid of it for her but as a nice jesture provin that u dont love it more then her. but mayb u guys arent meant to b together so i would really think about everything and decide if shes really the one for u. cuz what if u get rid of the car and she still doesnt wanna try again? then u'll b left alone and wit no transportation and that would suck.
2006-11-12 13:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by smalls8802 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if she's feeling low about herself. I'm thinking you're gonna have to start back at square 1. Flowers, dinners, spending time with her etc. You don't need to get rid of your car, the car isn't the problem. Address the problem, spend your time with her.
2006-11-12 13:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over. Move on.
2006-11-12 12:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tellhere
2006-11-12 12:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋