Family & Relationships - 8 November 2006

ill tell you mine. It was a friday night and i was at a boy-girl slumber party, we had fun but at the end of the night we played a game. who ever choose a 6 out of a hat had to dance naked with your crush. I choose 6!! slowly i removed my clothes revealing my bra and underwear. suddenly slow music came on and i danced naked with my crush and rumer spread around at school! i was 13 and the time and there was 14 boys and 12 girls there!

2006-11-08 09:01:00 · 4 answers · asked by Gloria. 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend, Mike. He's my best friend. I've known him for about three months. Everyone tells us that we would be so perfect for eachother. We also have this friend, Nicole. Nicole feels that Mike doesn't want to be her friend and doesn't like her. To assure her that he was wrong, at lunch today, I asked Mike, "Hey Mike, is Nicole your friend?" and he replied "Yes. She is my friend." and Nicole replied "No, he's lieing." Then Mike said "No, If I was lieing, it would take me a long time to answer..." We continued eating, not thinking anything of it, and so I talked to him. "Mike, if I ask you a question, will you be completely honest with me?" He said "Sure." so I asked "Do you like me as more than a friend?" There was a long pause and he said "...No, not really" and we left it at that. Next hour Nicole brought it to my attention that he paused when he said no. was that his way of telling me yes? Or does he really not like me? I'm hanging out with him and friends tonight.

2006-11-08 09:00:12 · 8 answers · asked by Sam 2 in Singles & Dating

I have recently split up with a guy I have been living with, and since I have been on my own (last three months) I have had a good time going out with my mates. I met this guy who too is also recently single and we hit it off well. We decided to keep it casual which suited us both. a kind of special friend for sex only (its not good to sleep with lots of different guys in my eyes but come on, we have basic needs!!!) All was fine and I was enjoying the casualness of it and also the company. We went out on a date, which was a little disasterous to be honest, but I after I went back for 'coffee' I found I am now feeling used and a little cheap and I actually like him more than I wanted too. Knowing that something was up he asked me, to which I replied 'maybe I like you more than I prehaps should' expecting some sort of reply to confirm how he felt. But got the answer that he is messed up and does not to get involved. so my question is why do women need men more?

2006-11-08 09:00:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have already looked on yahoo people search. Are there any other ways that I can search on my own.

2006-11-08 08:59:57 · 2 answers · asked by Chrisy 2 in Family

2006-11-08 08:59:21 · 15 answers · asked by bonehead_bobby 1 in Family

I use to enjoy sex with my boyfried until he became disrespectful to me . We spoke about his disrespect and he has shown improvement. I want to start enjoying sex again with him but every time I try I do not get excited at all , he normally has to force his way into me which can be painful at times . I just perfer to cuddle , but him on the other hand dosen't want that and he's becoming very fustrated .

2006-11-08 08:59:01 · 15 answers · asked by cutecarribbeanbutterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 08:58:54 · 1 answers · asked by chickadee2624 1 in Family

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years now, we're really close to getting engaged. I love him more than anything but he's just not romantic at all. Any ideas how I can get him to be more romantic? I've tried telling him flat out that he needs to step it up, but it's just not working...

2006-11-08 08:58:39 · 4 answers · asked by Cindy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 08:58:37 · 15 answers · asked by ALMAS 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 08:58:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you're retired and you've lived most of your life, you're sitting on your front porch admiring the view....who's there with you?

2006-11-08 08:58:07 · 9 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what to do anymore. I have a sister in law who is such a "hater". Every time somthing good happens for me and I want to share it with her, she completely changes the subject, and does not acknowledge it. I don't know why it bothers me, and I don't know why I let her get to me. I think that deep down she wishes that I would never accomplish any onf my goals. I try to have a good relationship for our kids sake, but it's driving me nuts. I know I can't force her to be happy for me, but with the holidays coming up I know I will have to be around her. Why can't she just be happy for me?

2006-11-08 08:58:04 · 6 answers · asked by CoutureCutie 3 in Family

I am doing a class project and I need your help. Tell me your perfect mate, along with your age, ethnicity, gender, and how your religion views marriage and relantionships. This information is an improtant part of my project, because it helps me to understand your standards. no dumb answers please and thank-you.

2006-11-08 08:57:42 · 3 answers · asked by Dance Diva 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm only posting because I'm very desperate right now. The only friend I had told me today she doesn't know if she wants to be my friend right now. I'm 20, a male, living in Toronto. I'm not comfortable talking to anyone 2 years older or younger than me. I use MSN. I need a friend, someone who is compassionate and very kind. Someone please help.

2006-11-08 08:57:00 · 15 answers · asked by Wondering 1 in Friends

I am getting married in the spring. I have been told that my colours should be bright and/or pastel. Would it look like a funeral if I had my bridesmaids and groomsmen all in black?

2006-11-08 08:56:33 · 31 answers · asked by gojulie 3 in Weddings

Today is my 26th birthday. Should I be offended that my own mother didn't call and say happy birthday? I called her and she told me that she couldn't talk because she was keeping the phone line open even though she has call waiting. I have great friends that kidnapped me at 2 am this morning to throw me a surprise bday party so its not like I didn't do anything but this is my mother and I would at least expect her to say happy birthday. Should I say something to her?

2006-11-08 08:56:30 · 10 answers · asked by SAChic26 2 in Family

There's this junior guy that I really like, but his friends intimidate me since they are so much older (juniors and seniors), so I don't talk to him. He knows who I am, and he agrees that we should talk more in person instead of just online. However, we are both too shy to say anything to each other!! What shoud I do?

I need help fast!

2006-11-08 08:55:08 · 15 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Singles & Dating

and it didn't go quite as you planned? heres some background info...been friends (really good friends...goodtimes..lots of laughs etc) for years...dating for 6mos+ having a gr8 time...but I told him that I thought that I was falling in love with him and it didn't really go all that well...he basically said hmm thats nice...I then told him I didn't want it to be a big deal..thats just how I thought..b/c we're always honest with each other about stuff......he also lives hours away as he's at school....so I haven't heard from him in a bit..(which is normal)..but I'm just wondering...should I tell him that I take it back? that it's ok if he doesn't feel the same way? that I don't want to put pressure on him?? HELP!!

2006-11-08 08:53:59 · 21 answers · asked by deeperthensix 1 in Singles & Dating

I believe in the Lord jesus christ, and I know that when you pray for something you have to be patience and know that God blesses you in his time and not your. I'm becomming a little impatience at time, I have asked the Lord to bless me with a good sole mate. I'm not dating now, I'm not having sex now. I'm waiting on the Lord. Don't get me wrong I'm not just sitting at home playing with my fingers, I'm busy with meetings, family, friend, outing. I'm fairly attrative, I keep my self up. I'm in pretty good phyically condition but it like men don't even see me. I feel like if I was the only woman on earth on a deserted island the men would all go to the other side of the island. I'm becomming depress, what wrong with me.

2006-11-08 08:53:22 · 7 answers · asked by Ellen J 2 in Singles & Dating

I caught my boyfriend watching porn last night and I got so angry! Im really jealous of him watching big boobed naked girls it hurts me so much. He said he doesnt want to have sex with the girls in the movies but I find that hard to believe. He wants me to watch it with him, but i dont no if I can I would maybe feel worse with him seeing the naked girls. Does anyone know how I can change my thinking and be ok with his? Im so paranoid cause I no hes being sneaky and doing it behind my back, I could go as far as to end it with him, but I live with him and I dont want to be so drastic

2006-11-08 08:53:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

, am starting to feel i shold move on now anyone have comments if this is too soon?

2006-11-08 08:53:08 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

high school girls.

2006-11-08 08:52:33 · 5 answers · asked by Kevin 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has been seeing another woman for a long time (10 yrs). Every time I confront him he says he loves me, does not want to break up our marriage and will stop seeing her. This has happened at least a dozen times over the last 10 years. I think he isn't seeing her any more and then I find out he is...what should I do.

2006-11-08 08:52:28 · 36 answers · asked by marpen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know a bunch of you guys out there say stuff about who your friends are dating and they ultimately dump them. What are some of these magic phrases?

I have a relative who is dating a girl whom everyone in the family hates. Even the grandparents. She is manipulative and so is her mother. They have pulled all kinds of crap behind everyone's back and then she goes and cries to him and he takes her back.

Please help me out by giving me something to say to him. I don't need nasty/attacking, I need thoughtful reasoning.

2006-11-08 08:51:56 · 18 answers · asked by RAR24 4 in Singles & Dating

I love this kid and I really want him to realize it. I need some lyrics that will let him know that. Nothing cheesey please... and it should be a good song. I like 30SecondsToMars and things like that. We went out a year ago but we broke up, just because we never say each other and I felt pathetic. but now I feel really stupid. And he's afraid to talk to me in person for some reason, but we talk every day online. He just doesn't realize how much I still love him. oh, and he has a girlfriend, too. please help me!

2006-11-08 08:51:54 · 7 answers · asked by Dea. 3 in Singles & Dating

that having S.E.X and making Love are to completly different things and be honest

2006-11-08 08:51:46 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-08 08:51:39 · 9 answers · asked by BRIAN G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

yesterday i had just gttn off work i was tired and just am now gettin over a cold, it was kinda nasty out and we needed something fromt eh store given its not far way but i didnt feel much like wlaking and my BF got mad at me cuz ia sked him to drive me( i dont have a lisense) he got mad cuz i didnt wanna walk and called me a spoiled brat

2006-11-08 08:50:44 · 17 answers · asked by Lilmisssassy 4 in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy i like and i think he likes me because he usally lets me cut in the lunch line at school. And one day i was just 2 people away from him and he grabbed his friend and came over to me, so i don't know what to do i think he likes me and my friend thinks so too. He came looking for me one day at my friends locker, and asked who my teacher was. HELP ME! (please no joke's)

2006-11-08 08:50:16 · 5 answers · asked by I think im in love<3 1 in Singles & Dating

So if you have a friend who you had sex with numerous times back in the day and now you are both married, would it still be cheating if you both have sex with each other now.

2006-11-08 08:50:11 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce