I have recently split up with a guy I have been living with, and since I have been on my own (last three months) I have had a good time going out with my mates. I met this guy who too is also recently single and we hit it off well. We decided to keep it casual which suited us both. a kind of special friend for sex only (its not good to sleep with lots of different guys in my eyes but come on, we have basic needs!!!) All was fine and I was enjoying the casualness of it and also the company. We went out on a date, which was a little disasterous to be honest, but I after I went back for 'coffee' I found I am now feeling used and a little cheap and I actually like him more than I wanted too. Knowing that something was up he asked me, to which I replied 'maybe I like you more than I prehaps should' expecting some sort of reply to confirm how he felt. But got the answer that he is messed up and does not to get involved. so my question is why do women need men more?
2006-11-08 09:00:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
women are creatures of habitation. they think they can have a friend with benefits but 99 times of 100 they get emotionally involved and want to turn it into a relationship.
don't have a better answer.
2006-11-08 09:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatley friends with benefits isnt always a good thing. Someone is bound to catch feelings. Honestly i dont think if you sleep with someone it doesnt mean you dont have feelings for them just a little. You need to be attracted to a person to sleep with them,,unless of course you are a prostitute or something. Maybe you should back off him for awhile if you are feeling something for him and hes not feeling the same. Dont put yourself in that situation anymore if you dont expect to be used sometimes. There are other ways to satisfy yourself if you are single. Be happy with being single until you find the right guy that you want to really be with. No need to sleep with someone just because you are horny. Take care of that issue on your own.
2006-11-08 09:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have traditionally depended on men for money, a home, and kids. Now that we can get all of those things and more without men, why are so many of us still dependent on them? I certainly don't need or want a man in my life. Too bad about your relationship, though — hope it doesn't happen to me when I become of FwB age. If you get another one, make sure it's with a friend who you know you could NEVER seriously fall for.
2006-11-08 09:21:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true. You just picked the wrong guy to have a casual thing with. The guys I picked as friends with benefits I picked because there is no chance of developing feelings for them. They are the one's who want to make me their gf. You just picked wrong.
2006-11-08 09:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is just your case... there are cases that are quite the opposite of yours.
2006-11-08 09:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they both need each other the same ..
==========================================================
If you are single and have the time, please visit my site:
http://www.**************/go3.php
2006-11-08 09:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so...
2006-11-08 09:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by Kourtney H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋