I'm only posting because I'm very desperate right now. The only friend I had told me today she doesn't know if she wants to be my friend right now. I'm 20, a male, living in Toronto. I'm not comfortable talking to anyone 2 years older or younger than me. I use MSN. I need a friend, someone who is compassionate and very kind. Someone please help.
2006-11-08 08:57:00 · 15 answers · asked by Wondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why doesn't she know if she wants to be your friend anymore?
Why aren't you comfortable making friends with people older or younger than you? You seem to be have too many rules for making friends.
Be less critical, smile at people at work or school, start a conversation with someone that you don't know and you'll make friends.
2006-11-08 09:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your friend a chat friend or a friend you spend time with physically? I spent a lot of time chatting online for about six years and found it easy to talk with people that way and more and more difficult to deal with people face to face. Eventually I became very lonely because it wasn't a good substitute for friends I could actually hang out with. So I went on lava life and arranged to meet a few people for coffee or walks etc., made friends with a couple of them, and we're still hanging out after a year. There are lots of lonely people waiting to hear from someone like you. It also helps to join a group or do some volunteer work in your community. I volunteered to teach basic computer skills to seniors and in the process met some really nice people (my own age) who run the programs. You'll need to reach out in some way to find friends - once you start the rest will be easy.
2006-11-08 09:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by Essmi d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to u but i'm more than 2 years under u
2006-11-08 09:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by crybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't get it, desperately asking for friends and being picky about their age, and i mean, 2 years +- is no difference at all, wish you good luck, but try to be more "friendly" from the very beginning....
2006-11-08 09:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by truthseeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hi well i could be your friend am 20 yrs old female living in california
2006-11-08 08:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by yessika_213 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i could have been ur friend but im too old 33 better luck with another friend
2006-11-08 09:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have offered over and over again and no one ever contacted me back.Good Luck
2006-11-08 09:07:01 · answer #7 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh man its probably depression time for you...very unlikely to happen to an 20 yr. old man....
2006-11-08 09:01:44 · answer #8 · answered by Lizzie101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't just ask for a friend. why don'tyou join mypace @ www.myspace.com you can make all kinds of friends who have similar interests.
2006-11-08 08:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by CoutureCutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well youll find friends just gotta know where to go to and of what interest you go going.
2006-11-08 09:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by maria b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋