I believe in the Lord jesus christ, and I know that when you pray for something you have to be patience and know that God blesses you in his time and not your. I'm becomming a little impatience at time, I have asked the Lord to bless me with a good sole mate. I'm not dating now, I'm not having sex now. I'm waiting on the Lord. Don't get me wrong I'm not just sitting at home playing with my fingers, I'm busy with meetings, family, friend, outing. I'm fairly attrative, I keep my self up. I'm in pretty good phyically condition but it like men don't even see me. I feel like if I was the only woman on earth on a deserted island the men would all go to the other side of the island. I'm becomming depress, what wrong with me.
2006-11-08 08:53:22 · 7 answers · asked by Ellen J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relax when the time is right you will meet your soul mate or he find you. It may even surprise you when it happens because it will probably be when you least expect it.
2006-11-08 08:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe God is testing you to see if you'll keep trusting Him. Maybe its not the right time for you to have a mate- He knows if its not. Just be patient and keep meeting new people- just because you pray for something doesnt mean you'll get it. People who pray to be taller, or for more money, etc. don't really get anywhere. After all, the Lord isn't a magical geani in a bottle- He's not there to grant our every request, no matter how earnest we are or how desperatly we want it. It may be that you're not meant to have someone, or not meant to have someone for a good many years yet. Just keep praying and don't get angry with God over it- He'll help you through, and if you're meant to find someone, you will.
You're in my prayers!
2006-11-08 16:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by piratewench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow we are on the same island them- I am educated, in OK shape, and have a sense of humor---- i really don't think there is anything wrong with us... I think men now a days are looking for the super model type and nothing less will do,,, i feel for you- I'm in the same boat so to speak.....keep the faith sister keep the faith. HE knows what HE is doing so just go on with the things that make you happy and one day you will find someone who loves you for who you are. Stay strong......
2006-11-08 17:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by witchway 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you first thing...secondly..you will find a mate when you're not looking..Keep doin what you're doing..being involved in church, community and family..those are the best outlets for finding someone that is compatible with your personality and beliefs....don't be afraid to ask a guy out for coffee or to sit with someone at a meeting that you don't normally sit with....patience will pay off....just remember you're a beautiful human being and that things will happen when they happen.
2006-11-08 17:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by deeperthensix 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a person expressions and actions speak louder than their outside appearance.
Not saying you walk around with a chip on your shoulder, you do not sound like you do, but think about it.
The right man will come along for you, just be ready for him when he does.
2006-11-08 16:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
noting is wrong with you and im sure when its time the right guy will come along but you need to comfortable being single first know yourself better don;t rush into things or youll end up with the wrong guy
2006-11-08 16:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by wendy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEEK and you shall find; KNOCK and it will be opened to you. Quit praying, join a date club and start seeking. Knock on a couple ads and try to get an answer!
2006-11-08 17:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋