There's this junior guy that I really like, but his friends intimidate me since they are so much older (juniors and seniors), so I don't talk to him. He knows who I am, and he agrees that we should talk more in person instead of just online. However, we are both too shy to say anything to each other!! What shoud I do?
I need help fast!
2006-11-08 08:55:08 · 15 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also need to add that the majority of his friends are on my soccer team.
Also, what kinds of cute things could I do that aren't weird and completely random when I pass him in the hall and stuff?
2006-11-09 05:03:31 · update #1
One other thing: I'm not allowed to date...My mom's weird about that kind of thing...ugh.
2006-11-09 05:05:09 · update #2
ignore his friends, make the first move, he'll be impressed
2006-11-08 08:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Soemtimes when youre doing an activity together its easier to strike up a conversation .. much easier than if youre both sitting there.. just need to relax.. do a physical activity.. like an activity you enjoy and are confident about.. then its easier.. have more confidence in youreself ..and things will flow better.. then hell get more confidence too
2006-11-08 17:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sockie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok ~
Go see a movie together and when it's over you can talk about it. That will get the conversation started and then you both will be able to move the talking into other areas.
Good luck!
2006-11-08 16:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be bold. Guys do like initiative and appreciate when you step outside your circle to talk to them. If he's said he wants to talk to you then be the first to make a move. You only live once and its not like you should have a fear of rejection since he wants you to talk to him. Try to find time or arrange a time to meet when he's not around his friends and you'd feel more comfortable.
2006-11-08 17:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by irishgypsy88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him and say 'Hi' in front of his friends!! That would be super impressive - for both him and his friends!!!!
Worst case scenerio is that he doesn't say much in return - just smile say "see ya around" and walk awy with your head up - he won't know what hit him!!!
2006-11-08 17:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by IrishEyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's is not talking 2 u because of age or what his friends think then, he is so not right for u.Ok
2006-11-08 16:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by ladyranger4348 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set a time and place to meet each other in person, at the library, the mall, the park and make sure you both go alone, that should work
2006-11-08 16:56:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kalphbeir 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to have the same problem. I think you should just go for it, forget about his friends and everyone else. If you really like him, just go up and talk to him. What do you have to loose.
2006-11-08 16:58:22 · answer #8 · answered by leeny576 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u want to meet him , (away from his friends...)and take it from there. Be cute and sweet, dont say anything negative about his friends and go with your gut. 99.9 percent of the time, it's right.
hope i was helpful.
2006-11-08 17:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by Ramona Quimby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should stop thinking about what his friends say and make a move??
2006-11-08 16:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by kayster 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get wild, dont get intimidated by his friends..they just seem it but their not, flirt with him...thats what i look for in a girl in high school
2006-11-08 16:59:46 · answer #11 · answered by BRIAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋