, am starting to feel i shold move on now anyone have comments if this is too soon?
2006-11-08 08:53:08 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think that you should move on, no I don't think it is too soon.
I don't think that twelve years not being with any one else matters too some who you may meet in the future
2006-11-08 10:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dragon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You would have to deal with getting up as frequently as he wakes, nurse him if needed, and put him back in his crib. He will most likely cry but the only thing you can do is to let him know you are still there by going in and rubbing him and whispering to him every 5-10 minutes. He'll fall asleep eventually, and eventually he'll sleep longer. Personally, I co-slept. It was so much easier when it came to breastfeeding at night. But the main reason is that I couldn't sleep without them in my bed. I was so afraid they would stop breathing during the night. They'll move to their own beds in due time. I figure by the time they're 3-4 yo. Good luck.
2016-05-21 22:39:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you start another relationship, make sure you have unloaded the baggage from this relationship. Carrying baggage will only hinder you from having a healthy relationship. If you feel that you have, then by all means you should move on and find someone who deserves your love. No need to be in a hurry though as it is best to be without a man than to be with a man who doesn't deserve to have you. Good luck!
2006-11-08 08:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to obtain a divorce if you haven't already. Otherwise, be cautious about the men you accept dates from. They are going to seem like they're from a different world. Finding a nice guy may be difficult and you're unfamiliar with all the games & dramas guys play out these days. It'd be hard to prepare you for what's next--I can only offer this. Even if the hottest guy you've ever seen asks you out---don't let him pick you up at your house or come to your house to hang out instead of going out. Meet all new dates at a public place--even if you think you know them and even if you'd prefer to get acquainted privately. Guys these days won't hesitate to say something like..."lets take our clothes off and see what happens." Be cautious and be weary. You may get the hang of being single and you may enjoy your freedom--but it'll take awhile to get your 'sea legs' so to speak. Good Luck.
2006-11-08 08:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not too soon, You should of moved on soon as he walked out the door. Just make sure if you pick some one else that you don"t get hurt again. But there is always more fish in the sea.
2006-11-08 08:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by ed d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After 6 months, it is probably too soon to start dating again. But you should definately find some new female friends to hang out with and start going out and doing some fun things just to get out of the house. Find some women's clubs to join, such as volunteer groups or church groups. The key is to get yourself back into some sort of social circulation. Good luck!
2006-11-08 08:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. I became a widow after 30 odd years. And through Friends Reunited have met a man that has helped get through a lot of mixed emotions. He helps when I feel down, he never takes offence when I talk about Husband/Marriage. Please don't shut yourself away and brood. And I know this is Love the Second time Around.
2006-11-08 09:53:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on and put the past behind you. There is someone out there for you and time heals all wounds. What seems so important now will make you wonder why you thought it was such a big issue in a year.
2006-11-08 08:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by dreaminncalifornia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you believe that you are ready to take a stab at the dating scene again then go for it. You've grieved the loss of your relationship for a long enough period now and it is time to get back on the saddle. All I can suggest is to be yourself and don't pretend to be anything or anyone other than what and who you are when presenting yourself to potential suitors. Best of luck.
2006-11-08 09:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you know when you are ready to move on, the chances are if you are thinking about and not doing anything about it then you are not quite ready. However it doesn't stop you looking, and no it isn't too soon to start the rest of your life, he's moved on so why shouldn't you.
2006-11-12 04:37:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋