Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

well ive been with my boyfriend for two years and we still havent had sex. I'm a virgin but me and my boyfriend do everything but sex and are completely comfortable with each other. We are in love and decided that we should have sex. However, every time we try to have sex i break down in tears and nerves. As much as i want to have sex, i cant because i break down in tears and cant help but feel guilty.
I need help to break this fear and guilt!!!!!!

2006-11-06 09:39:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy are friends and always joking and he was being a smart-*** to me, so I responded with "screw you" and he goes "not now, but later."

WHY DO GUYS SAY THAT CRAP?!

Also, this guy is always joking with me, grabbing my sides and shoulders, hugs me, and etc. Is he just messing around or what?!!

2006-11-06 09:39:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 09:39:39 · 10 answers · asked by timeoutll 1 in Singles & Dating

My current girlfriend who I love more than anything else is ready to have sex. All my past girlfriends were all virgins when I had sex with them and I was their only one. Well, my girlfriend has had sex one other time with another guy. It drives me crazy thinking that some other guy screwed her and she is getting all emotional because I refuse to do anything with her. Please help me get over this. I know it is a huge double standard but I can't seem to stop thinking about it.

2006-11-06 09:39:03 · 5 answers · asked by John Doe 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is viewing divorce as a part of marriage causing the downfall of society?

2006-11-06 09:38:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband of 2 yrs has always watched any movie or tv show with these two girls in it. Does anyone think this is strange enough to him why or confront him about it?

2006-11-06 09:38:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had something of a reversal. I identified as a lesbian all my life and now at the age of 29 a much surprise but not to much of a problem i feel straight but i also feel inexperienced

Yeh i know this is perceved as hot but guys what do you think about this, does this make you think twice

2006-11-06 09:38:05 · 11 answers · asked by southbank_100 2 in Singles & Dating

i do every thing for my wife but she mis understand me. i came aboard for earning money for her but she wants me to go back but i know when i will do that she will ask me to earn more money for better living

2006-11-06 09:37:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what do you look for in a guy????explain

2006-11-06 09:37:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend really needs to make up his mind about what he wants because we can't always be going back and forth. The issue at hand isn't whether or not we're going to break up but smaller issues that he seems to find very important. He makes up some rules within the relationship, which I think make sense and that I agree with, but then it seems like he doesn't care enough to try to follow them. I have no idea what I'm supposed to do.

2006-11-06 09:37:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband of 2 yrs has always watched any movie or tv show with these two girls in it. Does anyone think this is strange enough to him why or confront him about it?

2006-11-06 09:37:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i kissed a guy and i do like him but not enough, i feel bad because he is really falling for me... but the thing is my parents wont accept him and i dont think i am ready for any relationship... how can i tell him all this without hurting him a lot....?

2006-11-06 09:35:51 · 3 answers · asked by gaby f 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 09:35:32 · 16 answers · asked by velocitysc43 2 in Singles & Dating

Im pregnant with my first baby and me and my husband are both over the moon about it the only thing is he has a daughter from a other marrage who he loves to bits and at first she way really happy about having a lil sister or brother on the way.But her mother has never accepted i and my husbands relationship and now shes turning her daughter against the whole idea of having a lil brother or sister and it has got to the point where she wont come and stay at our house at weekends.The thing is i dont no if shes doing this because she still loves my husband and she doesnt want him to be happy or if its because she still has a problem with the fact that im 19 and my husbands 34.Please help i really dont no how to deal with this

2006-11-06 09:35:28 · 8 answers · asked by angel.candy 1 in Family

I'm 13, my older brother is 17. Due to money problems, we moved to smaller house and we share a room now. My bro is very fit. He has the six pack abs and the big chest. So I spenda lot of time in our bedroom, and I see him work out. He is only in his boxers when he does this. I see him get changed and come out of the shower everyday. He doesn't care. In fact, he is the one who gave me "the talk" last year. I walked in on him masturbating and he explained it all to me, I was clueless. He showed me what I was gonna look like down there and what it all was for. He still masturbates when I'm in the room if I happen to be there at the time, and he just talks during it like it's not big deal. He's really open about himself. But like I said he spends a lot of time shirtless or naked, and I like seeing him this way. I've always looked up to him, but now I'm worried. And no, he isn't gay. He's had a girlfriend for the lst three years. And I don't think I'm gay, as I know I like girls. Help!

2006-11-06 09:35:26 · 13 answers · asked by Michael M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me & vincent were watching a movie together and i was sick last night so everything felt so hot to me so i jis was in my bra +thong and me & vincent were jis sitin' and kissin' when BOOM those ****** parents of mine dont even knock and see me and him there and GROUND ME so im grounded from seeing Vincent (other than school) and going any where after school but the twist is I DONT EVEN LIVE IN THE SAME HOUSE well they pay rent for me +my siblings apt. (i have 5 siblings) but 3 share anyways dont u think thats bolls **** we almost dont live together and besides shouldnt i be able to be in my underwear with my bf?? im 16 HELLO im almost an adult almost

2006-11-06 09:33:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wondering is it possible to have one. I mean if you talk to someone like everyother day online. And you have great conversations. Is it possible to have an online girlfriend or boyfriend, even if you have never seen that person before, and they live in a whole different state than you?

2006-11-06 09:33:37 · 7 answers · asked by Raziel 3 in Friends

there is this guy i went out with for a day an he is to cute! i want to ask him out again but i found out he never liked me!!! should i ask him out and will he say yes?

2006-11-06 09:33:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I know this is long but it has to be. I'm I wrong to just want to remain single? Being that I'm only 23 and yes a virgin. Shocking I know. I can't seem to find anyone who just look past that. Yes I've had a couple of boyfriends but they just couldn't take it anymore about me not wanting to sleep with them that they would just leave. What is with you guys? Why can't you look past that stuff and see the other qualities that women have? I'm to the point in which I wanted to have sex but not now if its going to be a chore. I just have no interest in doing it or dating guys anymore because I don't want to be rejected again. I'll just take care of myself I guess. So there you go, another decent girl added to the singles list. Does anyone else ever feel this way???

2006-11-06 09:33:23 · 32 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 09:32:58 · 27 answers · asked by BOO! 2 in Friends

2006-11-06 09:30:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok readers i've been dateing this guy for about 4 weeks and today i was feeling like he doesn't liek me anymore i dont' know what to do should i talk to him or just forget about wat i'm feeling i've had a crush on him for liek 2 yrs wat should i do?????

2006-11-06 09:29:56 · 11 answers · asked by skittles 1 in Singles & Dating

hi, peoples in my life friends came a lot at the same time and some broke with me at the same it i dont know i am sweet and i give them everything what should i do to make me and my friends relationship longer;. i get a gf in a day , i also can get 5 gf in a day i am sweet exiting intelligetn philosopher have a lot of stories i do make my own and quotes i give them money and dont take back they need than i give i got some answer they said you buying actually i am not they sometime need it they say i will return to u tommorow i do give some people r mean to me even we both dont like each other but still i do help them its money or whatever i give them. i love them they love me too about more than 70% of my friends told me you r the sweetest person we met in our life and some told me that you r greatest person in the world and mostly some one who meet with me on the first day he or she knows i am sweet a lot or my first words and they get fall in love with me. now please answer me

2006-11-06 09:29:13 · 14 answers · asked by Mr.Philosopher 1 in Friends

My good friend and I get into fairly large fights every few weeks or so... As in, we won't speak to each other (or if I try to talk about it she refuses to talk to me), and our other friends (we share several friends) end up splitting up so that neither her nor I am alone during the fights. The fights usually last for about a week and a half... Last night another was started and I'm getting a little tired of our on and off friendship. The fights are always over something petty, but we both end up worked up about it. I love spending time with her otherwise , but this is just getting annoying... Any thoughts?

2006-11-06 09:29:10 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Tex 3 in Friends

i have no complaints about my sex life its great but.....i just want it for longer

2006-11-06 09:28:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to go farther than just making out with her, but im worried i will loose her, and i dont want that cause poeple have said that we are so cute together.

2006-11-06 09:28:46 · 13 answers · asked by Drew R 1 in Singles & Dating

for some reason I can't stand my unborn childs father, I mean for the past four months he didn't do a thing for me but all the sudden he calls today and says sorry and he wants to do something for me. well he doesnt understand that i don't want to spend time with him now because everytime he apologizes, i accept and then he changes. Now he says he changed for the good, should I fall for the same thing again or just do thing s for myself?

2006-11-06 09:28:40 · 8 answers · asked by DONNAGAN 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-06 09:28:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

am i right or worng

2006-11-06 09:27:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in Va. and have been legally seperated for almost 2 years, How can I get a quick divorce without having to shell out the big bucks for a lawyer?

2006-11-06 09:27:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce