me & vincent were watching a movie together and i was sick last night so everything felt so hot to me so i jis was in my bra +thong and me & vincent were jis sitin' and kissin' when BOOM those ****** parents of mine dont even knock and see me and him there and GROUND ME so im grounded from seeing Vincent (other than school) and going any where after school but the twist is I DONT EVEN LIVE IN THE SAME HOUSE well they pay rent for me +my siblings apt. (i have 5 siblings) but 3 share anyways dont u think thats bolls **** we almost dont live together and besides shouldnt i be able to be in my underwear with my bf?? im 16 HELLO im almost an adult almost
2006-11-06 09:33:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO IM NOT JOKIN' and 18 is consideredan adult so yea im am alnost ONE!! oh and i feel bad 4 the girl whos also grounded and NOT lieing like me
2006-11-06 09:40:04 · update #1
i told "poor Vincent that but he didnt care most guys dont unless there big *****
2006-11-06 09:55:39 · update #2
16, I wouldn't consider close to an adult.
2006-11-06 09:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by cowgoesmoo31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had a daughter your age...in her own apartment(which is dumb anyway) in her bra and thong...would you not be upset. Like your dad wants to think of his little girl half naked with a boy. Grow up. Of course your going to be grounded. And you have 2 years to go until your an adult...and a have a lot of growing up to do. Your parents make the rules..not you. So just give it up.
And why were you kissing someone if you have the flu. Are you into spreading sickness. Something doesn't sound right.
2006-11-06 17:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by KatieJo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why you were grounded:
1. Even though you don't live with your parents, you live right next door under a roof that they, not you, pay for. (and whose bright idea was this anyway?)
2. They do not have to knock. You are their child (not almost-adult, child) and you live under a roof they pay for.
3. You were in your underwear with a boy and you are 16. No, you should not be able to sit around in your underwear with your boyfriend when you are 16. You shouldn't even be alone and unsupervised in your home with your boyfriend, fully dressed. This is why it's not a good idea for you to have your own apartment separate from your parents.
4. That story sounds fishy as all get-out. It was hot, so I just happened to be in bra and thong with boyfriend? Then we just happened to be innocently making out, with me almost naked? Too sick for clothes, but well enough to make out? Please. They walked in on you just before the deed and they know it. I hope they realize that you cannot be trusted with the responsibility of living separate from them, and make you move back in on top of being grounded.
2006-11-06 17:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound like an adult at all. If your parents are still supporting you, you have to follow their rules or move out. Sorry sister, no sympathy from me. And NO, I don't think at 16 you have the right to sit around in your little thong panties at your parents house. (If they pay the bills, it's their house) Why couldn't you have put on a tank and shorts. Have a little respect for your parents. Do you know how hard it must have been for them to see their little girl in her panties making out with some boy? I bet to them it was heartbreaking.
And now poor Vincent has a terrible flu. : (
2006-11-06 17:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by Pirate Hooker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not almost an adult. Your parents support you plain and simple. 16 is years from being grown up. I can tell that just from reading your post that your are not close to being grown up. Your parents can do whatever they please [within legal limits of course]. If they pay your rent and everything else it doesn't make you grown, it makes you spoiled. There is no reason why you should have your own apartment at your age. You're lucky, you're parents obviously care about you and I think you're being a bit ungrateful. But hey, you won't see it that way.
2006-11-06 17:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are not paying your own rent and having a boy over at the age of 16. I agree with your parent that you are grounded. Don't do something bad that your parent will take away your privileges. You are lucky to have your own apartment, you should learn how to be responsible!
2006-11-06 17:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by strawberry_kiss_gurlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's justified. 16 is not an adult, especially if you don't understand how bad it looks you were sitting with a guy in a bra and thong. You're only mad, you're grounded. That's a good sign you have a lot of growing up to do.
2006-11-06 17:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are still 16 not quit an adult you got about 2 more years, & they are your parents, & they do pay your rent until you get a job to pay for your own rent I would say that yes they can ground you, you should have locked the door!
2006-11-06 17:40:41 · answer #8 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm all for freedom and being able to choose for oneself, especially if you live in your own place. But, I'm afraid the keyword here is "almost". Your parents probably jumped to conclusions, and punished you in an attempt to protect you. I'd do the same thing if I found my daughter in the same circumstance as you (and I don't even have kids...).
2006-11-06 17:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the were shocked I'm sure if you have a chat with them u may be able to sort this out my mum would never have grounded me at 16
2006-11-06 17:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋