for some reason I can't stand my unborn childs father, I mean for the past four months he didn't do a thing for me but all the sudden he calls today and says sorry and he wants to do something for me. well he doesnt understand that i don't want to spend time with him now because everytime he apologizes, i accept and then he changes. Now he says he changed for the good, should I fall for the same thing again or just do thing s for myself?
2006-11-06 09:28:40 · 8 answers · asked by DONNAGAN 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
now he sends me maternity stuff or he will come over and ask for a hug. Of course i don't give him one but he still makes me feel bad.
2006-11-09 02:00:24 · update #1
Nah, get out of this situation. You have your unborn child to think about now and you don't need all this stress during your pregnancy. He has learned that he plays up you end it then you take him back, so he'll go on like this. You and your child deserve so much more.
Get support from friends and family for the upcoming event and afterwards so you are not tempted to go back with him as someone to lean on....'cos trust me you'll only have him for 5 mins. to lean on and he'll be back doing what he always does and leaving you in a mess again.
This is a new start now for you and your child.....enjoy it!
Best wishes.
2006-11-06 09:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be independant girl. Don't depend on any man.Seriously people can change but always have the ability to stand on your own two feet. Men will be men when they are ready to be. However most men end up staying boys or worst yet there are the ones who never evolve.... and treat women like nothing.
You can give him a chance again but don;t count on it. Remember you have decided to bring a life into this world and although you didnt go down to the store and buy a baby, he may decide tommorrow, next week, next year that he doesnt wanna be a daddy.
But most importantly you need to remember you are gonna be a great mommy.
Work on that....then everything else comes after.
2006-11-06 09:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by MIss T 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just the fact that you're asking this question should be ringing all your alarm bells. Make a life for yourself and your baby and take your time considering wether or not to let him have any part in it. All the best for you and baby!
2006-11-06 11:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by pb 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the shock of you being pregnant surprised him, he might be ready to face the music. Give him a chance me just might be a changed man.
2006-11-06 09:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by mocha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall for anything. Just get on with your life and let him find a way to fit in.
2006-11-06 09:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by Label Lady 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do things for yourself, you can't rely on him. When the baby is born, avoid conflict. The baby will benefit from seeing his dad.
2006-11-06 13:11:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anne B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do things for yourself...he's unreliable....you've been ok so far...if you really detest him then jus tell him to get lost....he's not doing you any favours
2006-11-06 12:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-06 10:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋