well ive been with my boyfriend for two years and we still havent had sex. I'm a virgin but me and my boyfriend do everything but sex and are completely comfortable with each other. We are in love and decided that we should have sex. However, every time we try to have sex i break down in tears and nerves. As much as i want to have sex, i cant because i break down in tears and cant help but feel guilty.
I need help to break this fear and guilt!!!!!!
2006-11-06 09:39:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well ive been with my boyfriend for two years and we still havent had sex. I'm a virgin but me and my boyfriend do everything but sex and are completely comfortable with each other. We are in love and decided that we should have sex. However, every time we try to have sex i break down in tears and nerves. As much as i want to have sex, i cant because i break down in tears and cant help but feel guilty. i am 18 yrs old btw
I need help to break this fear and guilt!!!!!!
2006-11-06 10:13:35 · update #1
im 18 yrs old btw
2006-11-06 10:14:18 · update #2
It sounds like you are just not ready, sweetie. Instead of "deciding" it is time, maybe back off and one of these times will just "feel right". If it doesn't, that is fine too. No need to rush these things, you have the rest of your life to have sex. Good luck to you!
2006-11-06 09:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Scientist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This means that you're not ready for sex. There is nothing wrong with that and hopefully your boyfriend is supportive of you. Some women want to save their virginity for their marriage and that is to be commended. I hope that you remain loyal to your feelings and do not let anyone talk you into having sex until you are ready for that time to come. Listen to your heart.
2006-11-06 17:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by Randy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feel guilty about what?? go get married! if ur not old enough get spirtly married sex is about LOVe and the mood have a romantic setting and have a beer or to just to clam ur nervs and dont forget to use protection! good Luck!
2006-11-06 17:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by Pinkt41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends on how old u are, and def. use a condom! try useing some KY it will help if u think it is going to hurt. and if u do everything else, then having sex is a breaze dont be scared if u feel comf. with him then maybe watch some pornos it might help a little.
2006-11-06 17:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by Brit. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you are old enough. The answer is a glass of wine a nice dinner and some sexy nighties. go for it'
2006-11-06 17:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by Donald P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't be scared and think about it as the best thing that's ever going to happen in your life.P.S. use a condom!
2006-11-06 17:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well your bf is going to hate this but i agree with ladyscience you definitely r not ready to take that step but when u r email me lol.
2006-11-06 17:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by blasphemy_ghost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would I know? I am only 11!!!
sorry.
2006-11-06 17:42:17 · answer #8 · answered by kaitie h 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have a few beers beforehand.
2006-11-06 17:41:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get drunk and then do it
2006-11-06 17:42:49 · answer #10 · answered by Princess 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋