I've been going with my gf for about 4 months and the farthest weve gong is making out. Should i be worried?

Question

I want to go farther than just making out with her, but im worried i will loose her, and i dont want that cause poeple have said that we are so cute together.

Answer 1

If you haven't already had this conversation with her, you should definately sit down and ask her whether she felt comfortable going any further. Don't put any pressure on her, just ask her how she feels about it. She may be waiting for you to take the lead, or she may be waiting for marriage and think you are also. Don't assume anything just yet, just talk to her.

Answer 2

yes, dump her. Work on your game some more with new women. Who cares what other people say. You are worried because the farthest youve gone with this girl is makin out?! You obviously want more than that but another side of you is a wuss and sticking to what is safe, what is familiar, that is why you cling to other peoples thoughts that you and your ex-girl are a cute couple.

If what other people think is really that important to you, more important than getting farther than making out in less than 4 months, then get the hottest girl you can find and your guy friends will respect you even more, your lady friends will respect you as a MAN.

Be a Man.
Be Expressive
Be Honest

Give women what they really want.

Answer 3

I think that 4 months is not really long but i see that u do not want to jeopardize ur relationship so dont.Mybe u need to talk 2 her about it and if she says she isnt ready then dont push her.U dont want 2 lose her because ppl say u look cute together wats the real reason here.Dont lose a good thing by wanting sex, sex will always be there

Answer 4

If you really like her and don't want to lose her don't pressure her. Things come at their own pace, what you may want, she probably doesn't. For some girls its hard to move on past the making out...especially if shes never done it before. Give her time...she'll let you know when shes ready. And besides...don't try and base your relationship around your sexual relations. Base it around how you feel about her. There is nothing worse than a guy who just wants to get in his girls pants.

Answer 5

There's no rush. You're not in a competition. Take it as slow as your girlfriend wants to go. Don't pressure her b/c you'll definitely lose her. You're not just with her for her body are you? You're with her b/c you care about her, right? So when the time is right you guys will progress. If you can't wait that long, then it's best you tell her instead of cheating on her for someone who will.

Answer 6

no, you should be worried! the first thing you need to know is that girls arent the same as guys. we worry about making the wrong move. like she might be thinking that if she does more( and thats all you want her for) that youll leave her after you get what you want. or maybe she's just not ready. you need to sit down with her and talk it out. if she wants to then good liuck buddy, BUT if she says no then drop it. and maybe wait till she makes the first move.

Answer 7

Whatever you do...don't make her feel pressured but do talk to her. It's good to keep communication lines open. It might have NOTHING to do with you guys but just about how she feels about the topic. 4 months isn't that long of a time either.

Answer 8

It is very fun and romantic taking it slowly ,you shouldn't`t worry ,the time will come when both of you are ready ,hopefully soon ;)
in the mean while think about how you can improve your relationship with her on other levels so you can both be happier .

good luck

Answer 9

if ur tlkn about sex then ur an idiot u know wht thats stupid ur not even married wht is wrong with this world my god if u r tlkn bout it then i hope u get n std if u dont even know wht that is then dont even think about it

Answer 10

it depends on how old you are, ask her if she is ready