My current girlfriend who I love more than anything else is ready to have sex. All my past girlfriends were all virgins when I had sex with them and I was their only one. Well, my girlfriend has had sex one other time with another guy. It drives me crazy thinking that some other guy screwed her and she is getting all emotional because I refuse to do anything with her. Please help me get over this. I know it is a huge double standard but I can't seem to stop thinking about it.
2006-11-06 09:39:03 · 5 answers · asked by John Doe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is no good reason for you to feel this way . You have been with
other girls . She could feel the same way about you !
Give yourself and her a break . If you love her nothing else should matter .
2006-11-06 09:50:34 · answer #1 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your not mature enough to be having sex. The chances of you finding someone who has only not had any other sexual partners are slim. Get over it! If you can't handle the fact of another man being inside her before you like it is your territory only than you have some issues.
2006-11-06 17:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you scared that she may be more experienced then you? Why is it such an issue that shes been with someone else? Are you annoyed that shes not a virgin like your other ex g'f's? Why are you refusing? Sorry I dont understand?
2006-11-06 17:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by Brookeo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to see it as a first encounter for both of you with one another.
She's hardly a whore now is she? One other partner. How many have you had?
It is new for both of you.
2006-11-06 17:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself.
2006-11-06 17:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Marilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋