ok readers i've been dateing this guy for about 4 weeks and today i was feeling like he doesn't liek me anymore i dont' know what to do should i talk to him or just forget about wat i'm feeling i've had a crush on him for liek 2 yrs wat should i do?????
2006-11-06 09:29:56 · 11 answers · asked by skittles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok readers i've been dateing this guy for about 4 weeks and today i was feeling like he doesn't liek me anymore i dont' know what to do should i talk to him or just forget about wat i'm feeling i've had a crush on him for liek 2 yrs wat should i do????? i mean jsut last week he waould allways put his arms around me and give me hugs but then one day i kissed him and now its like he dosen't even like me anymore wat shoudl i do
2006-11-06 09:37:16 · update #1
i don't see why you are saying that. But you know, guys are less interested when they know you are sooo into them. they always want what they can't have and if you spend your time catering to him 24/7 then you guarantee that he will run further away from you. you need to be a little more laid back and cool and trusting and let him take more of an effort with the relationship or just end it. good luck
2006-11-06 09:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by Jacqueline S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you try to get over him, I know you will be unsuccessful because you love him too much. I can't tell you what you should or shouldn't do. Moving on, in order to tell if he likes you or not, put him to the test. Does he talk about his needs instead of yours? Does he feel tired and stressed when he's around you? When you guys go out, does he talk about other things that go on around the environment instead of you? There are many more questions I could ask but it would take forever. So did you say yes to any of these questions? If so, there is a good chance that he doenst like you anymore or never did.
2006-11-06 17:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by seelee916 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wellll,,, Sometimes your perception is not always correct. What you think is happening and what is really happening are 2 different things. My personal advise is to ask him because he will know a lot better than anyone here. Just tell him you are getting some weird vibes and you would like to know if he is just having a bad day or if there is a problem with you personally. That way you will get him to answer you. If he doesn't answer you with honesty you will be able to tell. Good Luck!
2006-11-06 17:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by Free & Sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, a crush for 2 years, sounds like you're 2 years and 4 weeks into the dating, and he's just 4 weeks into it.
The bad thing is, it sounds like you're also way more emotionally invested, than you should be. Relax, it sounds like things aren't going how you expected. Just go with the flow...
2006-11-06 17:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have the feeling he doesn't like you anymore?? Is he busy or something and seems kinda distant? Did you guys have an argument. He probably still likes you, just talk to him and see what's going on. Don't worry yourself thinking that he doesn't like you, just TALK to him and find out what he's feeling. It could be something you never thought about and have absolutely nothing to do with you.
2006-11-06 17:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely if you feel like he's using you, your probably right. Or now that you have him after waiting 2 yrs for him to notice you, he's probably not what you thought he'd be. You should ask yourself if you waiting that long anyway, why did it take him so long to hook up? He knows you waited 2yrs and will use that at his advantage to have you do anything he wants. AND because you like him so much you probably will. I hope you don't, it's not worth it. " There's much more fish in the sea"...
2006-11-06 17:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by ~mellisa~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to conclusions. Everyone has their bad days and their days off. Perhaps he just wasn't in the mood. If his behavior continues to seem shady to you, confront him and ask him what's up and what is really going on. Then, take it from there.
2006-11-06 17:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what has he done to make you think he doesn't like you? Something in particular, or has he just been acting distracted?
On your dates, does he ask you about your day or what you think/feel about anything, or does he just try to make out with you?
When in doubt, TALK it out! Look for proof but never assume or jump to conclusions.
2006-11-06 17:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What made you feel that he doesn't like you? You should just ask him. It isn't much of a relationship if you don't feel you can ask him that.
2006-11-06 17:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by EchoCharlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... talk to him and thats how you feel that he is not a good guy for you but maybe he just like that.
2006-11-06 17:33:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋