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I have had something of a reversal. I identified as a lesbian all my life and now at the age of 29 a much surprise but not to much of a problem i feel straight but i also feel inexperienced

Yeh i know this is perceved as hot but guys what do you think about this, does this make you think twice

2006-11-06 09:38:05 · 11 answers · asked by southbank_100 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Honestly, I would wonder knowing that you like/liked women, if you would go back to that. Love and sex are two different things and you may love me, but miss the sex. If I loved you, I wouldn't care about your past, but in the back of my mind I might be a little concerned. lol.

2006-11-06 09:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by hartovalion 3 · 0 0

I'm not a guy, I'm a bisexual woman who started off bi, then identified as lesbian, and then had to come out to myself all over again as bi when at the age of 30 I suddenly found myself attracted to men again.

I was very worried when I got together with my current partner that he would as you put it think twice, feel threatened in some way maybe. Realistically of course if a person is interested in you, they should like/love you for who you are, not who you used to sleep with or fancy. But it's not always easy to believe that. Anyway, he's fine about it - it was a big relief.

2006-11-06 17:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by purplepadma 3 · 0 0

It shouldn't make you think about it that much purely because you can bring something to the table that your man may not thought about. You can show him what makes you scream and cuss and swear. All in all it was before his time so if he can't deal with the though of you and another woman going at it hammer and tongues. Kick him to the kerb there will be a queue of potential lovers biting at your heels to get to you.

2006-11-06 17:46:40 · answer #3 · answered by cemeya 1 · 0 0

It wouldn't bother me. If it makes you feel better i ended up sleeping with a 34 year old virgin and though inexperienced she caught on quickly. Her problem by the way was performance anxiety. We were friends and I helped her get through it. She is now married with four kids and another a-comin!

2006-11-06 17:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0 0

I can't speak for the rest of my brethren (meaning other men) but I would find that , not a problem. It would turn me on, and I'd be happy for you that you decided to turn over a new leaf and live life the way it was meant to be lived (no offense to all the other homosexuals out there)

2006-11-06 17:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No. If you like somebody (even if you're infatuated) you usually don't care much for history. Trust me, I dated a renewed lesbian myself ;)

Of course, most of us will look for the ease of threesomes but the reality is that most likely won't happen.

In so many words, I could care less =\

2006-11-06 17:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 0 0

In my country we have more than one wife so wifes can talk to someone, this helps so man does not get headaches, man's head is for business and making sons, not for talking to wifes, one of my wife I have for three years before I even know name of. As we say in my country على الحب ضاع من الناس على نفسى دقيقة«--(¯ وعلى حالى على دمعى الى كان غالى ورخصتونى ناس مش ناس على Much lucks for you

2006-11-06 17:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Nobody should hold anything of somebody's past before they are with them. So even if you were a hooker if your new partner doesn't like it then you should finish with them.

2006-11-06 17:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jo 5 · 0 0

3 some 3 some 3 someYEAH BABY!!!

2006-11-06 17:45:13 · answer #9 · answered by NOT IN USE 3 · 0 0

You are who you are - your sexuality does not matter to others.You will find that you are not inexperienced in sex.

2006-11-07 09:37:05 · answer #10 · answered by John H 2 · 0 0

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