Family & Relationships - 5 November 2006

My girlfriend cheated on me about a year ago and I just found out about it 6 months ago. She force herself on one of my bestfriends. (he is gay, and didn't want to) We have been together for about 3 years now and were planing to get married. I am trying to get past it. And I told her I wanted to make things work, but the truth is that I have been cheating on her with about every girl I can find. I meet girl at bars, online, and at School and have random sex with with them. I have even taken pictures of myself with them and saved some of there underwear and other things, because I want to show her what I have been doing. I want to break her heart. Make her feel everything that she has made me feel. I want to crush her and let her know that this time she his messed with the wrong guy. Then kick her out. Am I wrong for wanting to do this? Should I just end it and let her go? Or should I get my revenge?

2006-11-05 05:24:35 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes, I am having a hard time getting over my ex bf. Yes, I know I should leave him alone. I am still hurting, and I broke down and texted him. It was only a couple of love quotes. I didn't say anything about coming back to me, or how much I missed him. One was "Love is when you look into someone's eyes and see their heart". He got all angry with me and called me a harrassing, psychotic stalker. What's up with that? I haven't had any contact with him in two weeks. Why is HE mad at ME? He left me for his ex gf.

2006-11-05 05:24:24 · 4 answers · asked by nursejuley 1 in Singles & Dating

she really is a fantastic looking woman, has a great personality, is funny, self deprecating and kind (also so damn sexy you cant believe, she used to be a professional dancer - tv, west end, music videos etc). She is also the best mom ever - any tips to show how fab she is???

2006-11-05 05:24:03 · 40 answers · asked by heath 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-05 05:23:04 · 21 answers · asked by Jailyn W 1 in Friends

This guy I like and I were sitting near each other at a dinner party and at one time his knee was next to mine and another his elbow was touching mine. Both times we stayed like that for a couple of mnuted not moving.Thing is it was such a subtle touch, like if I wasn't attracted to him I might not have noticed it. Was he flirting in a very subtle way or was this an accident?

2006-11-05 05:22:45 · 7 answers · asked by dimples18 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 05:22:24 · 12 answers · asked by NITIN M 1 in Family

well i like this guy and we have gone out before he seems like he still likes me but when i ask he say no and i really like him

2006-11-05 05:21:29 · 7 answers · asked by snax! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 05:21:09 · 22 answers · asked by Samantha 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my fiance for 5 years, no wedding date set yet. I feel like I fell out of love and lost that desire over the past year. I just don't even have the heart to get married with me feeling this way. What do I do? I feel so bad to hurt my fiance but I just can't keep hiding my feelings forever. Your advice would be greatly respected.

2006-11-05 05:20:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He had to marry another girl .... He really had to... Not because of her pregnance... That is national... I respect his action although I still cannot agree.... We are meeting soon.... That is going to be the last meeting .... I want him to be happy and I want the same for me too... what shall I tell him?

2006-11-05 05:19:54 · 8 answers · asked by simplegirl 5 in Singles & Dating

If a lady accidentally comes into my life and provides me with some emotional support when I needed it the most and I hold a liking for her, will it be seen in bad light. What do the ladies think?

2006-11-05 05:18:57 · 18 answers · asked by AIRY 1 in Singles & Dating

Women are really fun to hang out with. They make really good friends. When you start dating them however, they change into these whiny, annoying pests. They stop being fun, and they complain about how your acting even though your acting the same way you were when you were just friends. Why cant women just remain fun and exciting after you start dating them. Why do they have to change???

2006-11-05 05:18:55 · 15 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how do i do aunal with my girl friend for the 1st without it hurting?

2006-11-05 05:18:22 · 5 answers · asked by fatb0y051 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy dated me and would have this girl he was sleeping with call and 3 way me to find out what i was up to and what i was doing. he was 47 is he messed up

2006-11-05 05:17:51 · 10 answers · asked by elliepenelly 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 05:17:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I will meet a 'maybe' eligible female, maybe she works somewhere that I do business. She will be warm and friendly maybe even charming, but give no hint that she might be interested, some people are warm friendly people. I will try to read her every time I talk to her and nothing. Then one day she will turn cold, and only then I realize that she was waiting for me to make a move and that I've blown it.

Hey girls, what's wrong with giving a guy a clue?

Any advice in reading you ladies next time?

2006-11-05 05:16:23 · 12 answers · asked by hankthecowdog 4 in Singles & Dating

I went through a divorce and i found comfort with a guy who was my friend. Things truned into more, but he has a girlfriend and a baby. Well forr 9 months we went on me knowing he was taken, but i fell in love with him, and he said he did too. Well i finally came to my senses and knew he had a girl, what was i doing so i ment some 1 who was great everyhting that i had wanted and was single for me.But things with my bf are good but he has some issues, well needless to say when they guy i was seeing found out bout the new 1 he asked to break up with him and stay with him i asked what about his gf he said if she found out then he would tell her he loved her but wasn't in love with her. But i never left my bf. Well the 1 i was seeing got mad at me and stop calling me a month and a half went by and i called him he said he was thinking bout me & found out what he had gotton mad about some closer but i've started thinking bout him alot and i miss him he was there 4 me Does he really love me

2006-11-05 05:15:33 · 13 answers · asked by Pricas 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-05 05:13:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a straight girl and my closest friend is a gay guy, we're both in our 20s. He is outgoing, extroverted, spontaneous, risk-tasking. I am introverted, planned, and cautious. I enjoy being friends with him partially because he is so different from me, I appreciate, and know he does too, that we balance each other out. The problem is that he can be very inconsiderate. We will go somewhere where I know no one and am not familiar with the environment and he will leave me alone with no way out. He doesn't understand why this upsets me because if he was in the same situation he wouldn't care. He skipped my birthday. I have talked to him multiple times about how unacceptable I find the way he treats me. He tells me he doesn't know how to empathize or care and it's not specific to me. I don't understand this because sometimes it really seems as if he is empathizing. When he saw a card my dad had sent me to apologize he cried because he knew how important it was to me (he never cries).

2006-11-05 05:13:42 · 4 answers · asked by Elise 1 in Friends

2006-11-05 05:12:18 · 43 answers · asked by piter 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am desperately looking for a friend of mine who lives/lived in South Africa. His name is Adriaan Benjamin Malan. He's 41 years old and lived in Edenvale, studied at RAU.
Info on him, please contact me at bygilson@yahoo.com.br

2006-11-05 05:12:01 · 1 answers · asked by bygilson 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in love with my best friend
she is a grl and so am i
i have heard rumors that she is also gay...
but when i ask her she...well its not like she says no right away she just kinda avoids the question...like she would laugh it off
i want to tell her but if she doesnt feel the same way about me then i am afraid it would make our friendship weird and awkward....
what should i do?

2006-11-05 05:11:47 · 20 answers · asked by scruffy3850 2 in Singles & Dating

plsssss help i dont konw what to do

2006-11-05 05:11:36 · 12 answers · asked by jemy 1 in Friends

i need to know because i love him but unhappy at the sametime what should i do?

2006-11-05 05:11:28 · 16 answers · asked by beatrizpandolfini93089 1 in Singles & Dating

im at my house with my parents house that are watching football and there is nothing to do.

2006-11-05 05:10:54 · 8 answers · asked by carlislebum 2 in Friends

ive been in 2 plays and have never been in the lead and all of my friends have! im jelouse of them and i am going to finish my last show today!! shoul i keep on being in the plays or just stop??!! im one of those people who dont know when to stop!!! please help me!!

2006-11-05 05:10:02 · 13 answers · asked by BrOwN eYe GiRl 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for almost 10 years. My wife called me @ work to tell me just got a call from an old flame. He's in town for a conference and wanted to get together and "hang out". She told me that he dumped her 1 year prior to us getting together.
I asked how he found phone # and she said she didn't know (he's in a different state). During their initial conversation she agreed to lunch and I said that probably wasn't a good idea. I think she has since canceled the lunch meeting indicating that she's too busy (kids/schedule). He has since sent a couple of e-mails (i guess she gave him her e-mail too) giving alternate times. My wife says that she want to meet the old flame to show him what he missed out on. Right now, I'm feeling insecure and confused. Am I reading too much into this? thx.

2006-11-05 05:09:35 · 24 answers · asked by mmm m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have worked hard at my marriage for so long but nothing will save it not even a kiss from god almighty!! I have 3 children never planned to be a single mum. Do i need to go and see a solicitor my husband would never oppose to me having custody of the children.

2006-11-05 05:09:04 · 19 answers · asked by jules 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have the most beautiful, new baby girl along with the most beautiful wife!!! I have a mortgage and a small car payment along with household expenses. I currently make 23k a year and my wife is staying home for at least the first 2 years with our daughter because she was born 2 months early. A CDL will get me a job making at least $42k a year. The downside, I won't be home much during the 5 month class and I may not like the job as much as my current job, though it pays less. I am a family man, 35 years young. One income is hard, but I love coming home to my wife and baby every day and spending quality time with them on the weekends! A trucking job will pay more, but I will be away from them, which to me is heartbreaking! My wife had c-section so I cook and clean when I get off work so she can concentrate on our baby. I am an aspiring cartoonist, so I'm hoping some of my work will pay off soon for us. But also with a CDL, I can work locally. So what should I do?

2006-11-05 05:08:22 · 17 answers · asked by 1st Time Dad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

On halloween I took my neighbour's child out to the mall to collect candies, While there I had her trimmed by the Hairdresser.When I arrived home the Father picked her up and saw the haircut. He told me his wife would be very angry but he would handle it. The next day I called me at work and explained the situation. He told me he was angry and could not talk to me right now. The following day he knocked on my door to 'SHOW YOU THE BLOTHCED HAIRCUT YOU GAVE MY DAUGHTER". I did not open the door. I told him to COUNT ME OUT AS A FRIEND". He said that he would do that right now. "I don't need you". I was afraid of a verbal argument with him and just cancelled the friendship. What was he looking for when he came????Damages for haircut????

2006-11-05 05:08:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships