So I will meet a 'maybe' eligible female, maybe she works somewhere that I do business. She will be warm and friendly maybe even charming, but give no hint that she might be interested, some people are warm friendly people. I will try to read her every time I talk to her and nothing. Then one day she will turn cold, and only then I realize that she was waiting for me to make a move and that I've blown it.
Hey girls, what's wrong with giving a guy a clue?
Any advice in reading you ladies next time?
2006-11-05 05:16:23 · 12 answers · asked by hankthecowdog 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Come on ladies. How would you like it if it was customary for you to ask the guys out and we were aloof like you? You can't even bring yourselves to give a hint and you expect us to risk looking the total fool.
I agree, it's not to my credit that I have never once been shot down.
2006-11-05 05:40:51 · update #1
What's wrong with simply asking a woman you're interested in if she'd like to go out? Offer to take her to lunch or something. The worst she can do is say 'no' and that just means you're free to move on to the next one, doesn't it?
2006-11-05 05:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by dingobluefoot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she goes out with you at least twice, she's interested.
Might not be the right time for a move yet though.
Most girls wait for the guy to make the first move...tradition ya know? If you don't make a move on the 2nd or 3rd date, she will think you're weird or that you don't like her as a female. She will be confused and maybe insulted. Not good.
2006-11-05 05:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody likes taking a risk and getting shot down. Both men and women have a responsibility to ask the right questions. Body language can only be taken so far... after that it feels like mind reading.
Maybe you are like me, and oblivious to what is obvious to everyone else... try asking a trusted friend to observe the two of you and venture an opinion. Still amounts to guesswork, though.
Know what works best? "So... is there an attraction here, and are we going to pursue it?" It's risky, but oh so clear.
2006-11-05 05:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mikisew 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can totally know if the girl likes you in the way she hangs-out with you. She can act really friendly on you or maybe insult you to get some attention. Girls are hard to understand but take time to observe our movements. It's also hard to understand a girl's feelings and actions but give her time to express her self and maybe you'll know. You never know...
2006-11-05 05:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by Zashtaquir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not a girl but i think there the same as guys there a little scare of bening to bold or outgoing incase ur not interested so they are sutle sometime too sutle but as i said there proble scared just like lads
please read my answear evenknow im a lad
2006-11-05 05:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by ningamdo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time just ask her if she wants to go out.Even if your not sure ask anyway.I mean really what can it hurt.All she can do is say no.But if you don't ask her well you found that one out didn't you. The point is u can never read woman.There is not a hand book on how to read us because we are all different.So just ask her out.Good luck
2006-11-05 05:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay more attention! Women are subtle but the hints are there!
2006-11-05 05:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to say thats its just her being bad at giving hints or you aren't good at picking up on them. But its not true, why can't a girl just say how she feels. Stop being vague. PLEASE
2006-11-05 05:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by cannoninthehouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to pay more atention and next time just ask her or kiss her,that always works
2006-11-05 05:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by Yady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just don't pick up on our clues.
2006-11-05 05:18:39 · answer #10 · answered by Ooga Booga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋