Women are really fun to hang out with. They make really good friends. When you start dating them however, they change into these whiny, annoying pests. They stop being fun, and they complain about how your acting even though your acting the same way you were when you were just friends. Why cant women just remain fun and exciting after you start dating them. Why do they have to change???
2006-11-05 05:18:55 · 15 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you just put on an act to get us as boyfriend and then let your real self out when you start dating???
2006-11-05 05:19:22 · update #1
Are you a lesbian? You had this question a while back:
How can I ruin his new marriage???
I cheated on my husband 3 times because he worked a lot and I wanted loving. He is now marrying a new women and she is rich and very beautiful. I got nothing in divorce court because his fiance bought the best divorce lawyer money can buy. He seems so happy and it makes me jealos that hes happy without me. I want to ruin his life now. How can I do it????
Are you in some kind of sexual orientation crisis? Or do you just play around on the computer with stupid questions?
2006-11-05 05:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's bizarre but so many women make the same complaint about men!
The truth is that, whether it's in marriage, friendship, work or life: people constantly change.
And this is even more true when someone passes the courtship test and makes it into a dating relationship. It's a bit like looking and behaving your best to get a job, but once you're in, then you may not be entirely what the employer bargained for.
It's hard but possible to find someone who has similar standards to yourself. Take your time.
If you're looking for someone who is consistent, then it's like looking for water from the moon nowadays.
2006-11-05 13:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by montrealissima 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women change in this circumstance because expectations are different for friends than boyfriends. Women expect more out of you as a boyfriend, they get whiny and annoying when you do not meet these expectations. Also, it sounds as if you have poor communication skills with your girlfriends, you may want to work on that.
2006-11-05 13:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get into a relationship dear you can't BE the same guy you were before or atleast not completely. If you are really into someone and that person is a potential partner, you'll notice that there are certain traits that you will have to sacrifice in order to keep happy in a relationship. Men and women are different so you need to compromise. And yes it is true, both male and female should really understand the person that they are dating before getting into something serious. That way you avoid getting into the mess you find yourself in over and over and over again.
2006-11-05 13:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a different between having fun and just dating and be serious and wanting a real relationship. You probably don't clarify the difference and women think you want a real relationship when you only want fun. And with real relationships come great expectations.
2006-11-05 13:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by tofu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone changes when you get to know them better, even you though you might not realize it. Everyone puts up a front to begin with for a good impression.
And by the way, who's whining now???
2006-11-05 13:24:10 · answer #6 · answered by Bridgette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all change as we grow ...life throws things at us and we all handle them differently ... responsability brings on seriousness ..this in turn brings on stress... stress causes arguements,bad feelings...these things you tend to do mostly with each other ..as you spend the most time with each other .....but the thing is ...we ourselfs dont notice ourselfs changing ...others do.. the most important thing in a relationship is ...communication..if you have good communication then you should be able to ask the person themself and you will get.... the real answer ..
2006-11-05 13:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by she wolf. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not an act, but we do put our best foot forward. As we get to know you, we let down our guard.
You should date someone for 3 seasons (9 months) to really get to know them. (Grandma advice)
2006-11-05 13:22:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women change,sometimes for good.Others are the same always.
2006-11-05 13:38:17 · answer #9 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your dating the wrong kind of women, the ones l know aren't like that.
2006-11-05 13:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋