My girlfriend cheated on me about a year ago and I just found out about it 6 months ago. She force herself on one of my bestfriends. (he is gay, and didn't want to) We have been together for about 3 years now and were planing to get married. I am trying to get past it. And I told her I wanted to make things work, but the truth is that I have been cheating on her with about every girl I can find. I meet girl at bars, online, and at School and have random sex with with them. I have even taken pictures of myself with them and saved some of there underwear and other things, because I want to show her what I have been doing. I want to break her heart. Make her feel everything that she has made me feel. I want to crush her and let her know that this time she his messed with the wrong guy. Then kick her out. Am I wrong for wanting to do this? Should I just end it and let her go? Or should I get my revenge?
2006-11-05 05:24:35 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GET YOUR REVENGE MAN! CRUSH THAT *****! I HOPE SHE CRIES.
2006-11-05 05:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by KingMike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off if he didnt want to di it then he would have said so to HER. he just doesnt want you to get ticked at him and blame him for it, but actually they are BOTH at fault. why have you waited 6 months to do something? revenge really isnt the way to solve this. having random sex with many different girls could get you in a heap of trouble. what if you end up getting a few of these girls pregnant? condoms dont always work ya know. The revenge could turn back on you with all the child support you'll be paying for the next 18 years. think about what you are doing before you go any further. I would just let her know exactly how you feel, tell her the same way you've told us here. Let her know that she hurt you in a way that noone should ever get hurt. Let her know what your plans are and what you have been doing and why. Let her know that you were planning a horrible "sweet revenge" tactic and that she deserves every bit of it. Just dont go through with it. You really could find yourself in a prediciment that will change your life in a way you couldnt go back and fix.
You'll find a sweet girl who is much better for you than that other girl and you'll fall in love all over again.................
2006-11-05 13:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by Help Me Help You 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You are not wrong for feeling that way but I think you let it get too far out of control.
2. Yes, you should end the relationship because you said you forgiven her but you didn't and in a horrible way to get your own revenge you did it back to her only like 10 times worse.
3. About your revenge, the damage has already been done!
2006-11-05 13:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by Angelica G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, revenge is not the way. If revenge is the right thing to do, then there will be no one exist in this world. How can you expect her to be only with you when you don't do the same? Just forgive her and change your behavior too. If your can forget, forgive and Love her truly, and if she loves you, go ahead and get married. But you can't revenge if you love someone truly in any circumtances.
2006-11-05 13:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by DIm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge is never a good idea knowing details does just twist the
knife live purge love live well celebrate and be glad you got that two timer out of your heart and mind you seeking revenge hurts you more than her keep your dignity that's not hers for the taking
pick up dust off take time be with your friends do what you love to do and don't give her the offering of another thought in your head
2006-11-05 13:29:16 · answer #5 · answered by dancfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me being a girl, naturally I'm going to say to let it go and let her go. However, not because she is a fellow girl. I know what she did to you was wrong, and she shouldn't have, but you shouldn't try to crush her heart back. In the end it all comes back to you. Let it go. You'll find someone to date in time.
2006-11-05 13:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by ajriskus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You vengeful soul!!
Go ahead have your revenge but KNOW THE FACTS (and I don't mean with your friends) and it must be done before you marry. After marriage, its a whole new ball game and I wouldn't mess around with that.
2006-11-05 13:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by Aim4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't possibly feel better by drowning in your own anger. Instead of letting yourself heal you are re-opening your own wounds. I know you are hurt, but you need to stop, not because you might hurt her, but because you are hurting you.
Do what you have to do, if you need to hurt her, go ahead, but end it now. The longer you drag this out the more you are damaging yourself.
I hope your pain lessens, I feel deeply for you.
2006-11-05 13:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just end it. Move on, find someone you care about and who won't cheat on you and flaunt that. That's the best revenge.
2006-11-05 13:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by libra1079 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't blame you for being angry, but why drag it out plotting revenge.
Yes you'll crush her but will it really make you feel better and you could miss out on finding someone who is truly right for you.
just dump her and be done with it.
2006-11-05 13:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have, now, is a relationship that has become so unhealthy for both of you that it's probably beyond repair. Just let it go and get on with your lives.
2006-11-05 13:26:43 · answer #11 · answered by dingobluefoot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋