2006-11-05 05:22:24 · 12 answers · asked by NITIN M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
good decision nitin hey its easy dear ur baby is too small just take care of her ,she will be cute doll why r u so disturb dear now she is yours daughter so start life as u live wd ur own kids,because now she is ur own kid ur daughter .....ur child :)) u r her dad so take ur respiniblity ok....good luck.
2006-11-05 13:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by jagrati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were blessed enough to be allowed to adopt an innocent child who did not have a family and you have no idea what to do? Maybe you should have fostered children before making the decision to adopt. But here is a quick lesson from a mother with a 5 month old son. Feed her, change her, play with her, talk to her, bathe her, love her and help her grown into a productive member of society who wont be online 20 yrs from now asking strangers how to take care of her child.
2006-11-05 13:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take time to bond with her. That's really all it takes. The rest happens with time. Maybe take her on a trip, or start setting up new family traditions. If you haven't already, plan a family gathering to introduce your newest addition to family and close friends. Maybe even start a journal or scrapbook to give to her when she is older, including her first 5 months of life, and why you decided to adopt. All parents have a feeling of "Ok, what now?" It's a normal feeling. Good luck!
Oh, and Congratulations!!!
2006-11-05 14:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by Tina Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way you would start life with a child you had given birth to. Why would they allow a person with no sense to adopt a child?
2006-11-05 13:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how about this way....................
Mommy I Wish
Mommy I wish I could put this in grown up words,
so you would really understand how much you mean to me.
I know I’m just a little kid right now,
and I don’t know all the things you need.
I wish I could pick you up and hold you,
like you do when I’m hurt or feeling sad.
‘Cause I know sometimes it’s hard for you,
to punish me, when I’ve been bad.
I wish I could give you all the things we need,
and I wish I could go to work for you.
So you could stay home and play,
and do the things you like to do.
Mommy I love you, and I’m so proud too,
and wish that all the little kids in the world,
could have a mommy, just like you.
Mommy do you know my biggest wish of all?
for all that you do.
I wish and I pray everyday,
that I will grow up, and be just like YOU.
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-11-05 13:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on your baby daughter! If you are not sure on how to start a life with your new baby... why not join a parenting club at the clinic where you take your baby for her inoculations. this way you meet other moms and dads as well.
2006-11-06 05:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by mumtaz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not understand how you were allowed to adopt a child with out parenting lessons, for god sake you shouldn't even be allowed to adopt a cat
2006-11-05 14:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT?? You adopted and have no idea on how to be a parent? That don't sound to great.
You need to bond. Holding her, kisses, alot of these things!!!
Talk, soft loving talk!!
Congrats! You'll catch on.
2006-11-05 13:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First af all i appreciate ur dareness to adopt a girl.
Just treat her like ur own girl & be a good father( 0r mom).
Parentage comes first before godliness
2006-11-06 00:16:31 · answer #9 · answered by Kanchi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really great.She is very small.So you can happily with her.Her future is with you.You can live happily.
2006-11-05 19:37:32 · answer #10 · answered by kk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋