We separated and when he asked if we could see other ppl, I said he could if he wanted to. I told him NOT to mess around with my best friend, they were friends too, so I was kinda paranoid. I asked him over and over if they were f***ing around and he said no. My "friend" finally told me they had been seeing each other for 2 months. I lost her, and now my husband and I are living together again, and it is killing me. He acts like nothing happened, he says he wants to "fix" things, but he goes around like its already fixed. I have to force myself to kiss him, force myself to let him hug me. I constantly bite my tounge to keep from saying all the bad things I feel towards him. I hate this, and he knows it, I told him how hard it is and how I hate him sometimes. We have been together 8 yrs, married 5. He never lied to me before, I know that's what everyone says about their guys, but it was true with him, he really was different. He has horrible social/communication skills, always has.
2006-11-01
13:07:43
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