this girl who is my suppose to be my friend is all like your trying to be like me because she didnt have a backpack yet and was carrying around a binder which i did sometimes last year but anyways i started carrying my binder around for a week and shes like your trying to be like me and she also thinks that cause i always tell her i like her hair cause it pretty but i complement all my friends like clothes and hair all the time but she started telling all my friend that im trying to be like her like as if shes so great anyone would want to be like her what a conceited b**** but yeah like all my friends are thinking i want to be like her now what should i do like should i confront her or like not be her friend or if you have any better ideas cause idk
2006-11-01 13:02:02 · 10 answers · asked by chica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just stay away from her. If she's that insecure you don't need to be friend's with her anyway. Just be yourself and stay true to who you are. If that girl doesn't like it, forget her
2006-11-01 13:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by mrharderson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she sounds conceited and i think she wants some attention. she is creating the illusion that people want to be like her, therfore making her a little more popular. if u have been blamed for acting like other people b4, its hard to get out of this one. and your friends should know u better than to assume u r behaving like this girl (you only have the same binder and hair i mean come on!!) your friends should stand up for you. confront her and tell her, very confidently and honestly, "I don't know what u told my friends, but you should take it as a small compliment that I liked your hair that day and not spread rumors about me. So what if I got a binder too? if you are going to make all these assumptions about how I act, I don't think we should b friends anymore. please, show some consideration. you can get attention other ways." be nice when you say that. let her know. and in the end, it really doesn't matter what she and some of your not-so-nice friends think because she is kind of stupid and it seems like she admires you - telling other people that someone (possilbly more popular or prettier or nicer) is acting like you is an attempt to raise yourself up in school society. get some nicer friends! good luck ;)
2006-11-01 13:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by skigrrl66 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you should really tell this girl to get a life. It's one thing if your "friend" likes the way you act, but its different if they are trying to be better than you and saying that you are trying to follow after what they do. Since I don't really know much about this girl or yourself, the best advice I can give is to make it clear that you don't care what she thinks. All she is is a wannabe anyways, you're alot better than she is.
2006-11-01 13:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of stealth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could start a trend of your own that everyone knows is your idea. Wear something that you know she has never worn, like a pair of boots or sandals that she doesn't have or style your hair in a cute new style, then everyone would know it was your own idea. I wouldn't confront her because I think all your friends know that you are your own person. People like that usually feel very inferior and have to think that people think so much of them that they copy them. Don't let it bother you.... you're your own person and should be proud of yourself. God be with you
2006-11-01 13:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by KieKie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister is having sort of the same problem in the dramatic school of Vermont.But, i think that u should confront her because she's just gonna keep doing it.....I really don't know your age so I don't know how dramatic it is....but if i was u....I would lay her out!!!....lol....u should just show her whose boss,go up to her and confront her....like u said!!...lol....yeah so....u should try it.
2006-11-01 13:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by Natasha Palowski 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hunn. first of all i have so been theres its just ppl so doint even freak . any way ummm first of all like i would just confront her and talk to her about it because mabe she feels insicur about herself and shes just trying to make up stuff to try to make her self not look like that and bring the spot light twards someone else, but just talk to her i hope u gys turn out ok ..
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2006-11-01 13:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by brookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. just ignore it. who cares if you carry a binder around. alot of people do it.
2006-11-01 13:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. Be yourself don't think too much. Good smile can make the difference.
2006-11-01 13:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oohhh god i remember those days. well uh first of all just be yourself. so what u wanna do. ok it might seem like u r the follower but really she is so do what u want. stay above the influence. trust me
2006-11-01 13:08:21 · answer #9 · answered by saveitforthemoshpit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
confront her,express yo feelings g
2006-11-01 13:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by Raylyn c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋