Will u plz help me?

Question

Ok, Well my bf and I where dating for 6 months! And he Broke up with me about a month ago and I still cry at night! We went sooo far together! 1st,2nd,and 3rd a week after we went all the way to 3rd he broke up with me! I'm just in the 7th grade i know it was not very smart of me to go that far but I still think we had something! I called him about 30 min. ago and asked him if he had talked 2 1 of my friends and he said "Yes, and I hung up on her like i'm fixing 2 u!" then he did I still feel sooo bad 4 what ever I did 2 make him mad. I stair at him all the time but I don't mean 2. I asked him if he was going 2 our first Jr. high dance he told me not 2 go because id kill the dance 4 him. I went and he didn't do anything. What should I do I have said sorry 2 him.?!Should I talk 2 him 2morrow?

Answer 1

move on he is a user take time off from boys

Answer 2

Hi,
You seem like a very sweet and feeling girl. I want to tell you a story about what I have learned about boys and men. I am 34 years old. I met my first boyfriend when I was 18. (Pretty old huh :) ) Anyway, I was EXTREMELY into him. Much the way you describe. After going nearly all the way he told me he wanted to have sex. I was a virgin. I asked if he would still date me if I didn't. He replied I'm not sure. So I had sex with him. For the next four years. We ended up getting married because I was pregnant. That was 12 years ago.

What I have learned over time: What sex means to a girl and what sex means to a boy are COMPLETELY different things. I cannot stress that enough.
To a girl, while sex is physically stimulating and fun it is usually also a strong bonding and emotional experience. Science has even shown that we biochemically react to the other person causing further feelings to that direction.
To a boy, especially at this young of an age, sex is usually a very physical gratification and more about the boy and his exploration of himself as a desireable person and his sexuality and "skills" more than as an emotional expression. I am not trying to bash men, or belittle their feelings, but as I talk to men my age this is the common concensus I am getting. Many men go far into their adult lives still viewing sex in this manner.
This in no way belittles you as a person. It does not mean you are not special or attractive.
I would however tell you that you are very young. You are coming to begin to know yourself as a person. For many of my women friends we all felt that somewhere around 30 was when we really got to "know" ourselves and be comfrotable with ourselves.
Take time to know you. To fall in love with you. To know what you like, what you don't like and what kind of person you are going to be.
Sex at least for me is a very intimate sharing of me. I view it as a present. And when someone throws it back in your face it is very painful. If you had given this boy say an ipod and 1000$ and he tossed it into the street and tore up the money would you still want to be with him? And now consider that you gave him something far more valuable- and he is hurting you still.
My advice though I know very hard to take- lift your head high, go hang out with your girls, and leave him to his hand. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, PRECIOUS, AND TOO GOOD FOR HIM.
In love it takes the right people, and the right timing. Without one or the other, all bets are off, or else the road is a rough rough ride.
Best wishes to you.

Answer 3

sounds like he's having mixed emotions. i know it's EXTREMELY hard to, but you have to let him go. he's going to be mad for a while, and once he notices that you don't want him anymore, then he'll be all over you. Trust me, I'm 14 years old and currently have a crush on this girl, Jessica. And she got all of her friends to make fun of me and embarrass me in front of the entire class a couple of days ago. Then I noticed that when I ignored her, she would act differently towards me. It's hard to ignore the person, but you have to believe me, if you do it, even for less than a week, he'll freak out and want you back. Just give him so time, he's just mixed up right now.

Answer 4

he has used u, gotten what he wanted from u, and now he wants to move on and doesn't want to be with you, but u have given him your all and feel used and hurt that he doesn't want to be with u. to u this encounter meant love, but to him it was just getting what he wanted to get. you have learned a valuable lesson young, that u don't just go all the way with anyone,not at your age, cause the boys are just so immature at that age. don't u be the one sitting home with the baby when all your friends are going out and having fun.boys will tell us anything to get what they want. u have no reason to be sorry for a thing, except u are too involved with this boy, for your age. you have so many years to meet boys, and date, why give it away now, when your so young and immature that u can't tell who will respect you later and who won't.respect yourself and don't give in anymore, even if they tell u they love u.

Answer 5

well only cuz u said please...

just give him his space 4 awhile then apologize 4 whatev the **** u did and ask him if he could ever 4give u n may b give u 1 more chance if not move on theres plenty more fish in the sea......

Answer 6

don't talk to him EVER ! he is a jerk and doesn't care for you. no and you don't owe him an apology. Sex is a very serious step .you should go to the Dr and have a check -up . Please tell me he was wearing a condom! you are SO young ---please use this experience as a learning lesson. Your body is very precious, you should wait to give it to someone when u are married.

Answer 7

Your are 2 young to be gettin even to 1st
Be glad he left, couse that relationship might end up a lot worse
Please, please don´t try to live so fast
Boys wont respect you if you give it all