2006-11-01 13:03:00 · 21 answers · asked by pretty girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jealousy is a dangerous and stupid DRAMA GAME. If he isn't ten years old then there is really no excuse for it.
Tell him it is unacceptable now or ever. Explain that it is an indication of complete insecurity, total immaturity, or being a drama queen. Is he a drama queen?
If he can't agree to grow up NOW &/or get help for this problem then move on FAST.
Probably you are better off forgetting about serious relationships and concentrating on school and learning who YOU are right now anyway. Ever consider that?
2006-11-01 13:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by DidoDeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty girl: RUN ... RUN ... RUN !!! Your boyfriend views you like an item or object not a human being . Do you find him yelling at you and getting really angry with you ? I think that you would answer a BIG ... "YES" , to this ! This will become a larger problem later, in your relationship with him and you can expect him to be both, pushing and shoving you around. After this, he will take it one step further and begin to "pound" on you. Ask yourself this question. "Do I really want to be with a guy who abuses me both, emotionally and physically when I can have a guy who will treat me like he loves and wants me" ??? Your boy friend will eventually "drop" you ... sooo, make the move and get rid of him. - It's YOUR choice. All the best to you !!!
2006-11-01 21:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him about it first. Maybe he doesn't realize he's doing it. But if he continues (to any extent), break up with him immediately. These types of relationships are notorious for becoming physically and emotionally abusive if they aren't already. Be strong.
Good luck!
2006-11-01 21:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by brokenrose1890 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if he is so possesive hes not worth having. most possesive men are liable to abuse women. If not u statistics say his next gf good luck and think about it.
2006-11-01 21:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by goininsane21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if in any case this is happening to you or someone you know i think you should let him go before he comes stronger and starts abusing someone and remember the girl is the one that makes the men.if you just let him he'll keep on. stop it now not later. tell him that you have a boyfriend not a second father.
2006-11-01 21:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by Araliz O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u need to let him know straight from the beginning u arent not gonna put up with it....and if he continues after knowing how u feel u need to stop and rethink this relationship...once they start and know u r gonna put up with it they only get worse.. listen to someone who was in a relationship like that and i finally got out of it after if got to the point where it was abusive verbally and physically.
2006-11-01 21:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let him know what your expectations are and if he can't complly then move on. He will most definatly get worse with time.
2006-11-01 21:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him, find someone better... cause that's just scary and can lead to brutal actions.
2006-11-01 21:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by sogullablegurly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE while you can with a minimum of heart ache. This relationship is going nowhere....
2006-11-01 21:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by Diablo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either ask them to stop,or move on.
2006-11-01 21:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋