I suspected that my significant other may have cheated on me but I am not sure. I want to know if there are any known signs to look for? I have been having thoughts of cheating myself, but I havent yet.
2006-11-01 13:08:10 · 10 answers · asked by Dragon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You suspect him because you are having those thoughts. It's called projection.
2006-11-01 13:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHA! Umm, this is my advice to you honey.... Recognize that a man will be a man ALL the time. I'm a 20 yr old female that has a 29 yr old ex... I met him at age 18... and he took me for a ride. I still see him and currently he is "supposedly" with another woman. He calls everyday 20 times a day and comes to see me, that is letting you know that there is always time in between time ya dig?! A man will do what you let him do. Some are able to overcome something like that. BUT that's only if you have a good man to begin with. Signs can vary from man to man, some give you evident indications that's he's bein foul like not answering his phone, not being around(can't Be two places at once) if you live together then it's a hella easier to figure out something is different. But if he's your man recognize his signs u know him better than me ya dig?! Be a woman about yours and get in his ***...if u wanna stay then except what comes don't become what he is...only thing it does is make u look bad. We're females rigght?!Females are much more evil than a man ....TRUST.
2006-11-01 13:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by German_Chocolate20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two don't really have that much of a life together. Maybe you should suggest sometime in jest that you two try "swinging". After an evening of love making is a good time! I know some couples who have stayed together, but still had their other interests. It isn't cheating if both know it's going on and approve. A couple without mutual trust will not remain a couple very long.
2006-11-01 13:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by dallenmarket 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah what the other person said AND !!!
-hanging out at clubs not bars without u (since when do guyz like window shopping ???)
- distant , even less interested phone calls ( cuz they really dont give a crap what u have to say.... now they could care even less - if possible)
- not interested in sex with you (red alarm)
- spending less time with u
- gets angry with u for the simplest things
btw, these could be signs of you being too clingy- fine line...
i know this cuz i'm alwayz the other chick and i know the extent these guyz go to to get away with it
also don't be surprised if he has, itz no excuse but itz the truth , all guyz cheat, the sooner you make peace with that u'll be happy
oh oh !! if he did- RAISE H*LL ON HIS A** lol - thatz the kick a** part of being a woman :)
2006-11-01 13:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by dboez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be projecting your feelings onto your mate... but if you truly feel your mate is already heavy into it... look for lies, change in behavior, or better yet... open a sincere conversation with them regarding the topic of "cheating". Sometimes a relationship has not been firmly defined. It is difficult where things are just assumed. I say talk about it.
2006-11-01 13:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by wonderful1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staying out all night.Being too tired to have sex.Doing things much diffrent than he use to.Hang up the phone when you come around.Likes to be left alone and would rather be at work then home.There's a lot of things.But if you suspect he's cheating try to catch him in the act
2006-11-01 13:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you mite as well end this relationship now, because ur scared ur bf is cheating on u and u r thinking of cheating on him so just forget it. as for the signs to look for there are a few: if he calls u a different name while doing you, or if u find white kumstains on his clothes that u werent responsible for, or if u can smell cheap perfume on him, or if he is breathing too much these are all signs and if u notice any of them hes definetly cheating on you (he probably is if he is a real man).
2006-11-01 13:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you could assume relies upon on your process action. i myself had an identical difficulty. different than i found out from one among her former friends that it replaced into additionally of a sexual nature previous to our marriage. once I have been given domicile, I properly advised her that we mandatory to communicate and that it replaced into crucial to be uncomplicated. I asked her and she or he did confirm that she were in touch with him yet they have been in basic terms friends and that previous to marriage they did have occasional intercourse. She assured me it replaced into no longer something extra desirable than that now. I with courtesy asked her to interrupt off the touch good then in front of me. She did lower back in the back of my lower back lower back a year later. This time I advised her to no longer lower back and this time I called the guy explaining that have been married, to delight provide up with the touch. 0.33 time I caught her, I in basic terms filed divorce papers, and we divorced. i think the lesson right this is, you could no longer make somebody exchange until they % to, yet you besides might do no longer ought to stay your life questioning if she's betraying your have faith.
2016-11-26 22:50:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow - your relationship sounds TOPS. You both cheat on each other - how romantic! You must really love each other.
Very sweet.
2006-11-01 13:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by iliketorideigohago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEA,Not being around might be one .
2006-11-01 13:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by a1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋