Family & Relationships - 27 October 2006

Hey im having to ask this again, cuz im still not sure wat to get, my girlfriend is 14 and i need advice for a birthday gift, preferably not electronics.
PLEASE HELP!!

2006-10-27 11:32:18 · 12 answers · asked by adtither 1 in Singles & Dating

and when I was leaving, at like 3 in the morning, she said "Well, I'm not leaving for another half hour" or something like that. It seems to me she wanted to go back to my room, but to be honest, I was feeling her. She was cute, but I didn't like how her costume was a dress, a crown and a sasche that read "Mis Diagnosed". I don't think she's a ****, but am I a coward because I didn't think twice into reading into what she meant?

2006-10-27 11:31:43 · 4 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

I just had a baby about a month ago and yesterday I found out my mother is pregnant again and this will be her fifth child she asked me did I want her to have it or get an abortion I don't know what to say because I don't think its alright to kill a child and then again I really don't want another brother/sister WHAT SHOULD I TELL HER?

2006-10-27 11:31:14 · 21 answers · asked by A'Kerriah Momma 1 in Family

there is this guy i like...... alot, but i dont know if he likes me.....
i havent told my friends that i like him..... how do i find out if he likes me??
(i dont normally get in these situations.)

2006-10-27 11:31:05 · 5 answers · asked by cciccarella 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel terrible for asking this, but I only find my physical opposite attractive.

I'm black with milk chocolate coloured skin and dark, almost black eyes. I'm quite slim (size 10 - 12) and around 5'6". I can't help it but I love guys with clear coloured eyes and fair hair.

Blue eyes, blond hair and 5'11" upwards is perfect for me. The trouble is, that guys of that description don't seem to be attracted to me. I get a lot of attention from black guys but I have never ever been attracted to any. I've always put it down to the fact that I have three brothers and mainly male cousins- attraction to a black guys feels really wrong for me- is that weird?

Are tall, blond-haired, blue-eyed guys aged 28 to 35 attracted to 33 year old black girls who look a bit like Jamelia? And if so, are they all already spoken for- where's a good place to find one, do I have to go from Tooting Bec to Sweden??

2006-10-27 11:30:18 · 19 answers · asked by Jennifer O 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i kiss a guy? details please?

2006-10-27 11:29:47 · 10 answers · asked by Aly-Gator! 1 in Singles & Dating

i am in love but i don't now if i am ready

2006-10-27 11:29:39 · 7 answers · asked by barbie_brat_coolcat 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy is kinda my friend and i realllllly like him and we have alot of eye contact in the hallways even when we dont talk, and he is a shy emo type, and he has another friend thats a girl that goes over to his house to learn to play guitar, he ended up asking her out but now doesnt look me in eyes ne more and LOOKS REALLY guilty for some reason. whats happening? and were getting weird
and cant talk about what happend

2006-10-27 11:29:32 · 5 answers · asked by BabyPosh 2 in Singles & Dating

Or does it even matter?

2006-10-27 11:28:48 · 7 answers · asked by churnest 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, im not legaly married but ive been with my sons father for 4 years. he is the birth father, i have never strayed. Our home and all bills are joint (in both names). My son is 3 years old. I want to leave my BF or kick him out, my bigest fear is joint costody or losing costody. Does anyone know the law, because we are not legaly married can he file for joint? He is the blood father but were not married, does that matter?

And i am sad to say getting along is not an option. We have not had an intmate relationship in months, about 2 yrs now. He is controlling, and verbably abusive.

2006-10-27 11:28:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

http://www.spirithalloween.com/index.cfm/fuseaction/products.detail/categoryID/307855fb-9545-47a7-a98e-6ef7a52aacbd/productID/a5e14d2c-35e4-4e78-8d4e-7fc5fad73e1f/
Click on the link and let me know.
Do you think it's too revealing? Im trying to look sexy but classy at the same time. I already bought it and I look way hotter then the girl in the picture.

2006-10-27 11:28:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-27 11:26:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a women who has asked me for advice. here is the scenario
her husband is away for a long time there are married . since her husband has been away her mother insist on telling this women and pushing her to meet men and marry only the rich one. Her husband maintains her well but her mother insist on asking her for money and when she doesnt have any to give her she insist on pushing her to meet men and ask them for money which is quickly given to her mother . What should this women do

2006-10-27 11:26:43 · 8 answers · asked by aggadan 3 in Marriage & Divorce

would someone that really knows what they are atlking about tell me how old you have to be to choose whether you dont want to visit one of your parents if they are divorced.

2006-10-27 11:26:18 · 22 answers · asked by LIL Shady 2 in Family

i am scared of what might happen if i say yes...how do i now if i am ready

2006-10-27 11:26:17 · 7 answers · asked by barbie_brat_coolcat 1 in Singles & Dating

Last week, my friend got suspended for calling these guys the n-word. They were bothering her. She returned this week. Okay today someone girl asked her why she got suspended and she said because she called a ni**er a ni**er. I'm black so of course i was offended. Then at lunch they were playing hip hop music she was like they need to turn that ni**er sh*t off. Some girl she's hispanic was listening to hip hop or black music and she was like why do you listen to that ni**er sh*t, I listen to pure chicano rap. It's really beginning to piss me off. Well anyways, there was three white people at the table and she has some girl and tell them to get up and leave because this was pure Mexican table. Advice me please. I don't want to ditch because we have been friends for about four years now. I guess one of her other best friend who is 1/4 black 1/4 spanish and 1/2 native american is not talking to her at all. what should i do?

2006-10-27 11:25:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i met this girl on the bus about a year agoand im really into her; shes everything a guy would want in a girl and more....since we met we have been getting much closer, and we talk every day. everytime she walks on the bus, she gives me a huge smile and gives me a sweet hello. she always walks over to me and we laugh the whole time. we get along great and compliments me from time to time (which i return of course). however she keeps talking about cute guys she sees and know with her two friends.....ive asked one of her friends if shes interested but says she doesnt know but is willing to help find out. the other day she asked if i wanted to go to a party with her (i couldnt go cuz i had to work) but said i was sorry and said mybe next time. i need help figuring out if shes interested, cuz her friend is trying her best to find out, without acctually telling her i like her.......what do you think....do i have a shot or what

2006-10-27 11:25:04 · 14 answers · asked by nascarfan 2 in Singles & Dating

Can Grandparents have full custody of grandchildren if the mother is cussing emotional abuse

2006-10-27 11:25:04 · 13 answers · asked by Victoria T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What's going on here? In college, there was a girl I knew
and she was cool. I wasn't real close to her or anything, but I remember her thinking I was sweet and always wanting to get pictures with me and stuff. One time I told her she could talk to me if she needed someone to talk to, and I don't remember if I put my hand on her shoulder or not, but I wasn't trying to hit on her, I meant it as a friend and my roommate tried making me feel like an *** by saying I made her feel uncomfortable, but then two weeks later at a bar on her birthday, she says to me and a couple of our friends, well something sexually explicit about her feeling aroused.

Is my roommate lying or exaggerating any?


BTW, there was this girl we knew that gave guys hugs, and he told me that she didn't like it when I hugged her, and I kind of hinted to her about it and she said with a straight face "Honey, I'm not talking **** about you" and for some reason, I actually believed her.

2006-10-27 11:24:47 · 3 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Friends

We already have wicked and wild times. But she says she does not have any fantasies? Could this be true.

2006-10-27 11:24:37 · 16 answers · asked by scott in minnesota 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have night school and it is so important to me but my boyfriend think i am not spending enough time with him.

2006-10-27 11:24:26 · 8 answers · asked by annettahasley 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 6 months now. We lived in another city together after I graduated. Now that we are back home, I'm working for my father's company as a taper. There are a couple of boarders who I've made friends with and today I found screws in my mud that I was using. I thought this was weird and knew who it most likely was and shrugged it off as a funny joke. Then I went to my car after work, and on a piece of tape off my tape roll was a note from the boarder that I have been innocently crushing on. He asked me to dinner and told me to call him, and I have been thinking of this since I got off work. I don't know what to do. My boyfriend has never told me he loved me, and we are slightly on the rocks. I really like this other guy but at the same time I don't want to ruin things with my bf because.. well.. he's part of the family and EVERYONE likes him... I don't know. I'm so lost..

2006-10-27 11:23:55 · 15 answers · asked by spiceywolfe 1 in Singles & Dating

His name is Louis. I know you can either pronounce it LOO-iss or LOO-ee but which one would you rather be called? Which one's better?

2006-10-27 11:23:33 · 10 answers · asked by Coco 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy freak dance d at the dance like 5 times n slow danced to so i started liken him ..? so i called him we had a funny conversation!!! then this hole week well monday threw wendsaday he would see me n say hi briana in that lil anoyying long way and give me this wink and hella cute face. then on wendsday he winked at me but said nothing to me n after school came up to me with out saying a word and gave me a hug i walked away n he did to and we laughfed !! then the next day i lkeft hima message sayin i wanted to talk to him after skool and the we met up and in a cute sexy voic he asked if i called n i tol him yea n he said wassup n i tol him i um wana tell u sumtin then mi friend kaori said u like him n i was smilin sayin i dont then he huged me n said u like me lookin all happy n **** !!! n then i gave him a note sayin if he liked me back?? and i liked him !! then today he hasnt said a word to me n all my friends think he like me!! but kaori thinks he thinkin of me n a gf

2006-10-27 11:23:28 · 2 answers · asked by ~Queen B~ 1 in Singles & Dating

my gf is married to aother guy in AZ but she left him because he beat her up like crap. so Im wondering since we are in california. She don't want to see him at all it is it possible to do that in california?

2006-10-27 11:23:25 · 2 answers · asked by n K 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok im going out with some one but there is this other guy that likes me should i give the new guy a chace or should i stay with the guy ive been dating for over 4 years?

2006-10-27 11:23:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I have nothing to worry about because my boyfriend has never been anything but honest and great, but I get jealous. The things that cause it are very stupid. If he smiles at one of his coworkers I get upset. If certain girls comment his myspace I get really threatened, but there is really nothing there.

2006-10-27 11:22:31 · 16 answers · asked by Gwen 3 in Singles & Dating

from 1979 to 1985

2006-10-27 11:22:17 · 1 answers · asked by stardust 1 in Friends

in which age the man sex completely finished or it not finished ..

2006-10-27 11:21:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I discussed this with my girlfriend some time ago and we came to a conclusion that ladies are naturally seductive. For example, ladies love to dress nice so that guys are attracted to them. And also when talking/conversing with guys, they tend to brush their hair with their hands, sit or stand in a somewhat seductive manner, or whatever like that. This becomes more apparent according to how interesting the guy they are conversing with (good looking guys, best friends, smart/famous guys, guys they personally adore, etc). My girlfriend said that this does not mean that she is going to run away or get an affair or whatever, but just that she cannot help it, naturally happens. Is this true?

2006-10-27 11:21:43 · 11 answers · asked by Whatta 3 in Singles & Dating