We already have wicked and wild times. But she says she does not have any fantasies? Could this be true.
2006-10-27 11:24:37 · 16 answers · asked by scott in minnesota 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well Scott in Minnesota, Maybe you fulfill her so much she doesn`t need fantasies. If a woman is very satisfied in the relationship, she has the man she is involved with on her mind. What does she need a fantasy for if she feels she has the real thing. Not something else that isn`t meaningful. Be happy, she must be crazy about you.
2006-10-27 11:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) She may not have any fantasies.
2) Some women have really off-beat fantasies and while they get totally aroused by them, they're far too wild (dangerous, fearful) to tell anyone about.
Such as having some really hard, hip-pounding sex with a faceless stranger. Being tied up, doing it on a beach with a passer-by, being totally swept off her feet with sweetness by Mr. Tongue, Mr. Perfect, etc.
Of nearly all the women who confided in me as a male-friend, not a guy who they would date, but a guy they could certainly trust... About 80% said they have really detailed/raunchy/lurid fantasies and almost all of them (about 70% of the 80%) said the fantasy was always with a faceless stranger. Maybe 50% dream of doing someone famous, powerful or rich.
2006-10-27 12:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't have the sexual freedom's that men have. We have been taught that good girl's don't, and don't includes admitting fantasies. Chances are, she has fantasies, but, they are hers and she may believe that by sharing them that you may feel she is not that good girl she was told to be. If you really feel the need to know those intimacies, try sharing any of Nancy Friday's books with her, they are completely devoted to women and their fantasies. It may open the communication you are looking for.
2006-10-27 12:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by frogsandweeniedogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have sexual fantasies just like men. Maybe she's just shy or doesn't feel comfortable enough to share them w/you. Give her some time.
2006-10-27 11:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it could be true. Sometimes we think are fantasies are funny and don't want to share them in fear that we will be laughed at by the one we love. I truly don't have fantasies either but sometimes when he asks me I might come up with something fun.
2006-10-27 11:26:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience most girls deny having lurid fantasies. Every guy seems to have a barrel full. Maybe men and women are different.
2006-10-27 11:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have fantasies... I guess men and women are just different that way. We don't go there.. Not that there's anything wrong with that... I just know that for me, I'm satisfied with my guy and fantasizing would seem like cheating somehow...
2006-10-27 11:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, we all have fantasies, but it is wiser not to share it. Maybe her fantasy is another man. I would not want to share that with my husband/partner.
2006-10-27 11:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by Regi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be true or she could just not want to share them with you b/c she might be embarrassed or think they might embarrass you. I have fantasies that i am personally ashamed to share with my hubby so i tell him i don't have any
2006-10-27 11:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by oneluv1169 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are it for her, my co-workers would tell me I'm full of it because I didn't have any. It was like she completed me, she was my fantasy.
2006-10-27 11:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋