I know I have nothing to worry about because my boyfriend has never been anything but honest and great, but I get jealous. The things that cause it are very stupid. If he smiles at one of his coworkers I get upset. If certain girls comment his myspace I get really threatened, but there is really nothing there.
2006-10-27 11:22:31 · 16 answers · asked by Gwen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Damn Gwenn how old are you? Get a back bone and grow some cahunas! What's a smile and a comment on the computer.? Stop being so childish. Why be threatened when he's yours? Insecurity pushes a man away, I hope you know that.
2006-10-27 11:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Nessy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well I get how u eel u are just so used to him payin all his focus on you like a good boyfriend should that u are mad at the slitest things. I know what u mean but don't be u should know that u are the only one for him no one can take ur place that is why u are his girlfriend. Girl just relax don't be jealous he only wants u so it will work out for the best i hope!
2006-10-27 11:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey welcome to the club!!! im the SAME WAY i get jealous over nothing...but i gotta remind myself from time to time that my boyfriend hasnt done anything for me to think that hes cheating and above everything i havent caught him cheating so y be so jealous it just ruins the relationship and he wont have fun being around u 2 go out because he will think if he looks at a girl or smiles at one then you will get jealous and fight! just relax until he does something! its hard but its the best thing to do and trust me when your not so jealous u will see going out to a party or to a restaruant will be more enjoyable!
2006-10-27 11:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to realize that you are the only girl that he wants. Just like when you smile at other boys, he may feel the same way but knows that you love him and not the other boys. I say don't worry about it. When you see something on his myspace where a girl says something like, "You are so fine get back at me." Just write a sweet and loving message like, "Hey baby, I just came to let you know how much you mean to me and I love you.(or something like that) It lets the girls know that you don't care what they say, because your the one who has him each and everyday.
2006-10-27 11:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by shante14mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 23:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by cellar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't hidden anything from you now, then chances are if you trust him, then you shouldn't be worried. I get jealous over my bf's ex and others because we hang out with everyone a lot. But I know I shouldn't be worried because it's me he's coming home to, not them.
2006-10-27 11:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by spiceywolfe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a result of being cheated on in the past. never the less, this is something you should talk to a counselor about. jealously (unhealthy) will ruin your relationship and an even worse case, push him to cheat. a lot of people have the attitude, if im gonna be accused of it, i might as well be doing it.
2006-10-27 11:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by too_damned_kute 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are dealing with your own insecurities. You should just trust in your boyfriend and trust in what you guys have. Jealousy has been known to ruin relationships. Just be happy and proud that you have a good looking guy that other women may find attractive. Just lets them know whos laundry basket his boxershorts are in. (yours)
2006-10-27 11:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by Baby boy blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and let go-find something other than him, a hobby, to occupy your free time.
If you dont want to lose him dont run him away-you said he is a great guy. Have faith in him-learn about something important to him and surprise him. not only are you no longer showing "green eyes" you are now showing that you love everything about him & want to understand him
2006-10-27 11:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by msijg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still immature and need to really try not to be that way. You will ruin a relationship with that behavior.
If you feel all is well w/your bf then just breath and let the small things go. You will torment yourself and him too.
Good luck w/all that.
2006-10-27 11:26:31 · answer #10 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋