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There is a women who has asked me for advice. here is the scenario
her husband is away for a long time there are married . since her husband has been away her mother insist on telling this women and pushing her to meet men and marry only the rich one. Her husband maintains her well but her mother insist on asking her for money and when she doesnt have any to give her she insist on pushing her to meet men and ask them for money which is quickly given to her mother . What should this women do

2006-10-27 11:26:43 · 8 answers · asked by aggadan 3 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

8 answers

There is a word for what her mother is doing. She is pimping for her daughter. Not in the normal way but it is the same thing. If her daughter is getting money from other men you can bet it isn't out of the goodness of their heart.

Tell her the only way to stop a problem is by addressing it straight on. She needs to tell her mother that she is not here to take care of her and by getting other men to do it is a most horrible thing for a mother to do.

She is married. Makes no difference where he is.

If her mother does not respect her then she needs to stop seeing her. Period.

2006-10-27 11:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by John B 5 · 0 0

This woman should lose her mother - period. She is married and she is old enough she should stick up for herself and not be pushed around by some old bag. Don't answer the phone, don't go to lunch with her, don't call her, just stay away, and grow a backbone. She should tell her mom to get off her butt and go find herself a rich man herself if she needs money so badly. Also tell her to NEVER, EVER give her mom money again. Even if she claims she is sick, dying, needs food, needs medicine, wanted by bounty hunters - DON'T DO IT. Her mother is a parasite and needs cut out of her life immediately - I cannot stress that enough!!!!

2006-10-27 18:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by Michaela 4120 3 · 0 0

Honestly..the daughter should really have a long heart to heart with her mother....It's unfortunate her mother wants to prostitute her daughter out to finance her own lifestyle.
Her mother may see this as just getting the daughter to "take care of herself" but if the mother is the one wanting the money....its more of a question of" who's the pimp here"...really sad indeed

2006-10-27 18:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by bald_guy69 2 · 0 0

This woman need to distant her self from her mother, her mother is only thinking of herself, this is a dangerous game that she is playing, Tell her to tell her mother, enough is enough, if she want money that bad, then she go out and get a job, or for her to go out and do what ever she wants her to do. just leave her out of it!

2006-10-27 18:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0 0

She should tell her mother that if she continues to try to interfere in her marriage she will tell her husband and stop seeing her mother ever again.

2006-10-27 19:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0 0

Stop talking to her mother

2006-10-27 18:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

aww...so the mother is pimping her out now eh? and her daughter is married? wow.......that daughter really needs to figure out her priorities. mom..or husband

2006-10-27 18:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 5 · 0 0

does she have to do anything for the men in order to get money?

2006-10-27 18:33:14 · answer #8 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0 0

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