Family & Relationships - 26 October 2006

my mom let her best friend move in with her and they said that if she cleaned, cooked and bought supplies that would be fine, so shes not paying rent. it was ok for the first year or so but then my mom finally found a man that she can talk to(my dad died 2 and half yrs ago) and shes happy. the problem is her best friend, after like a couple weeks of my mom going out with this man my moms friend exploded at her and said your a rude ***** and your always nasty to me my mom has always been nice to everyone. my mom let her move in when she didnt have any where else to go, and the lady said it would be for a few months(lie). then this lady sent my moms man a card saying how rude and nasty my mom is. well my mom hasnt said nothing to her firend cuz shes hoping it will go away but it wont. this lady hasnt done a dam thing in the past 4 or 5 months just hides in her room. she doesnt say hi or anything she just says hi to the dog. she is making my mom feel uncomfatable in her own home what todo

2006-10-26 10:59:13 · 16 answers · asked by marynew8 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to knwo what is the biggest thing that we dont understand? what is the worst problem you all find with guys not "getting" you. and what kinds of things can we as guys work on

2006-10-26 10:58:53 · 3 answers · asked by lpxerounderground 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 8 months now, and he wants more than just making out. He's not pressuring me or anything, but I know that he wants some more. The problem is I want a little more too, but I'm scared that I'll do something wrong or something like that! But I'm afraid that if I dont do anything with him that he will break up with me! It's been a really long time now, and a lot of his friends think that its pathetic that we haven't really done anything. What do I do??

2006-10-26 10:58:47 · 2 answers · asked by Kaitlyn 2 in Singles & Dating

My guy works at a strip club as a body guard for one of the strippers. I told him I would come see him one day since none of my friends were able to hang out. He said "No and that he wanted me to just wait till he got off work." Said he "didnt want me around that enviroment." This girl is a friend and seems to never talk to me when we all hang out. He claims they are just friends but What I dont get is why he wont let me go. I need to know if this is a sign of cheating.

2006-10-26 10:58:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to try an adult toy with my wife but don't know where to begin. We wouldn't like something scary but just a little spice. What has worked for you and where can I buy?

2006-10-26 10:57:54 · 9 answers · asked by lopie6 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

HELP@!!!!!

2006-10-26 10:57:52 · 9 answers · asked by KG 2 in Singles & Dating

i've been going out with my bf since last friday n i think he might be 2 desperate =(. he says he luvs me, txts me every chance he gets n calls me every nite. well, we do sorta hav a long distance problem but anyways, im gettn pretty pressured cuz i dont think of him that much. i mean, i lik him, may luv him but not the way he doz. do u think he's too desperate or is it just me??

2006-10-26 10:57:04 · 20 answers · asked by sassy babe 1 in Singles & Dating

this was chosen by you all to be the best answer....
THE EYES FOR ME. THEN I WORK MY WAY DOWN.
so now i ask this about the eyes. you all say it is a window to our soul... maybe a bit hard to explain but can ya do so? and what color eyes are the best?
there is no real reason or point to this question other than i just wanna know. so no bashing please, i just wanna know a bit more of what the girls think of eyes...

2006-10-26 10:56:52 · 6 answers · asked by lpxerounderground 3 in Singles & Dating

want would i do to make him stp lokeing my girl and she might like him back

2006-10-26 10:56:48 · 4 answers · asked by fr3$h bk k!D run da h@t3rs 2 in Singles & Dating

He is ssssssssssssssooooooooooooooooooo super cute. And he is available but I dont have the courage to go up to him and have a decent convo. His locker is right across mine so i basically can go up to him any time but i cant.

2006-10-26 10:55:57 · 7 answers · asked by babygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

and he drove to see you and would probably stay in town for the night to avoid the long trip back and to go out with you the next day before going back for the week , how do you go about suggested he stay at a motel in the area before he suggests staying at your place? It isn't that you are a prude but you don't want to put your self in a position where something might happen. You have set high standards for yourself and made mistakes before and want to make sure he respects you and can give you what you are looking for and you don't want to give him freebies when he hasn't made a committment. You just want to go out with him both days and spend time with him, but don't want him sleeping over.

2006-10-26 10:54:53 · 9 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

i love one girl

i need to send a message to her thru phone

what to send. just nice one........

2006-10-26 10:54:02 · 5 answers · asked by mohan_kirupasankar 2 in Singles & Dating

hidd mai box for a year mother of ma kids plus .deleted messeges the day i found out about them ,coincidense,ladies feedbak ..please had never seen her express her self in that manner never the less think she was like that?is she cheeting ?sais no but this mothr fukker still hasnt shown his face..

2006-10-26 10:53:14 · 1 answers · asked by Cabb 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

see i don't get to see my father that often and now that am i mom . my father would like to come down and see me and my baby. but he dosen't want to see "Eric" the babys daddy, and you can guess why be my frist qustion, but here's the top off "Eric" wont let my see my father without him, but my father wont come over if "eric" is at my house

2006-10-26 10:52:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What I mean is that my last fairly long relationship was 3 years ago, since then I've had about 3 which have lasted a month or two, when I say how long I've been single do I refer to the last short one which was a couple of months ago? What do you do? Sorry for the long-winded explanation.

2006-10-26 10:52:53 · 16 answers · asked by micktravis 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think about your husbands or other scenarios

2006-10-26 10:52:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I haved asked this guy out MILLIONS of times and my firneds have too. He has said no every time! I guess he likes someone else but is single. What shouldI do to get him to like me more? I have slw danced with him because my friends BEGGED him to death!

2006-10-26 10:52:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she doesnt like me and shes in 8th grade so im afraid cuz i think she'll kill me!

2006-10-26 10:51:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

need help from the adult ladies out there, it would be greatly appreciated. I need to know how to read this situation so I don’t make an a** of myself tomorrow (I’m 30, and this girl is 34, neither of us have ever been married). I went out with this girl twice, the last time was a year and a half ago. The first time we went out things went ok and we made plans to go out again. Then one of her longtime friends got in the way and they began seeing each other. She lives one hour away from me so it would have been a long distance relationship. She broke up with him a few months later. We went out again shortly thereafter. I went to see her. At the end of the date, she said that she would have to come down to see me next time. she had indicated previously that the distance turns her off because she has to drive 45 minutes everyday to work and that was what was precluding her from starting a relationship with me.. It’s really complicated, but like an idiot I never asked her down because I kept coming back to the “she doesn’t like the distance thing so she isn’t really interested”. I didn’t want to have to deal with the rejection because she is an awesome girl and I could have seen myself falling hard for her and then end up hurt. If I missed my chance with her I’ll never forgive myself. Here’s the thing. We’ve kept in touch consistently for the last year and a half and email nearly daily (sometimes to the point of excessive since we are both at work!). Sometimes about absolutely nothing at all, but other times about life and what’s happening in each of our lives. Over this time I’ve begun to realize that I have some serious feelings for her, like she might be THE ONE. Back in January I realized this and I asked her out to lunch but she said that she had started seeing someone and “didn’t think it would be fair for all of us involved” to get together. So we went on like usual. I casually mentioned to her about a month ago that I had started seeing somebody (I’m not anymore but she doesn’t know that), and she immediately responded by suggesting that we needed to get together sometime. She is planning on coming down to my town to do some shopping and wanted to get together with me afterwards. Today, she mentioned that she’d like to switch up the schedule though, that she wants to see me first then do the shopping later. Can you give me your interpretation of the situation? Am I in the dreaded “friend zone” or is there a chance she is waiting to see my reaction and if I still have interest? I need the female perspective. Thanks in advance for your help, I am an absolutely pathetic mess.

2006-10-26 10:50:38 · 17 answers · asked by kjhenkel 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 10:50:36 · 9 answers · asked by Alley 1 in Singles & Dating

So yea? what do you think about it ??

2006-10-26 10:50:36 · 42 answers · asked by Jessi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met the guy at work and we are both pretty attracted -he wants to go out for an official date- this is the difficulty- regularly I wear skirts- but not at work bec of company policy- so he doesnt know I wear them. Should I just compromise and show up in jeans or tell him first just so that he knows, or just show up in skirt...i know it sounds retarded but pls just help....and its not mini skirts either in case you are wondering...

2006-10-26 10:50:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months... he slept with this girl once a while ago, and just now she came up to him, and told him she's pregnant!! she's 5 months, but it's not 100% sure that's his, because she slept with other men around the same time too..but claims he was the last one (Which I personally dont think that detail matters) Anyhow, he's willing to help her, but wont take full charge of it, till the baby is born, and a test proves its true.
im trying to have his back, (cause we still weren't dating when it happen) .. but it's so hard! sometimes i dont even know what to say to him, when we talk about it... PLEASE HELP ME... i need advices!!

2006-10-26 10:50:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-26 10:49:38 · 4 answers · asked by Mona217 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I went to the mall today, and my brother in law was with a co-worker... he did get my attention, he wasn't hidding, and he introduced me as his sister in law (although I can be his sister in law by being married to his brother as well) I don't know what story he told this coworker of his... should I tell my sister? and if yes, how can I tell my sister without making it seem like I thought the worse? Or should I believe him and drop it since its none of my business? What would you do in my situation... tell her or not?

2006-10-26 10:48:56 · 10 answers · asked by precious1982 2 in Family

Ok, kids! I need your help! I was invited to a Halloween party with an 80's theme. It will be me and my hubby going. I need "couples" ideas. there are prizes for best costume. Some suggestions I have gotten are: The guys from Miami Vice, and Cyndi Lauper (for me) and George Michael (for him)

Give me ideas! Please! I love the 80's theme Idea, but we wanna WIN!

Thanks

2006-10-26 10:48:14 · 13 answers · asked by deebop_a_lula 3 in Friends

I broke my leg, and I need a beautiful lady to look after me. Would anyone like to volunteer? Alternatively, can anyone suggest a good source of helper monkeys or guide dogs for me? I'm not blind, I'm just lazy.

2006-10-26 10:47:41 · 11 answers · asked by kevin m 2 in Friends

I'm recently divorced.... and have been living abroad for all this time...

2006-10-26 10:45:55 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-26 10:44:40 · 8 answers · asked by hhii j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-26 10:44:06 · 19 answers · asked by skipper 1 in Marriage & Divorce