2006-10-26 10:44:06 · 19 answers · asked by skipper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm going to assume you meant "...with each other."
It's possible, but very unlikely. "A leopard doesn't change his spots" and if they get back together, it's only a matter of time before whatever issue caused them to break up the first time will resurface and start to cause problems again.
2006-10-26 10:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by Rochester 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I want the long term friendship of my ex-wife so very much, but at the moment I am too scared of being hurt by the person that has hurt me more than anyone else has ever done to risk trying to be the friend she wants me to be.
When all the hurt is gone, I hope I am left with good memories and a unique friendship with a woman that I know isn't really a bad person deep down-she just made a bad choice.
If you are the one being left/dumped make sure that the friendship is on your terms only and not a moment earlier than you are ready otherwise it will just hurt you.
2006-10-26 18:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, I will answer this without reading other people's responses first.
I know of 7 couples that have been divorced, were still friends and re-married. I know two couples that have divorced twice and re-married after the 2nd divorce.
I know some personal things on 2 couples out of seven, and I wondered how they would ever re-marry but it happens.
I just warn people never say never. You never know what will happen in the future.
2006-10-26 18:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats one good thing about our lifes; we never know what tomorrow can bring and history has a tendancy to repeat itself sometimes. I have handled alot of divorces and both parties reained good friends afterwards, mostly if children are involved but alot were for other reasons. Also many figured out it was better to be married to each other than living apart. Anything can happen and most often it has again
2006-10-26 18:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOAD OF HORSE SH*T!!! Why would you get a divorce then be best friends with your ex and then want to fall in love again!! You might as well stay married and work your problems. Why go through all the hell of a divorce to only end up together again? That makes no sense. MARRIAGE IS WORK ITS NOT A VACATION!! NOBODY EVER SAID MARRIAGE WAS GONNA BE EASY!!
2006-10-26 17:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Definitely yes.
We were best friends, thought getting married would work, didn't, got divorce, went out for pizza and cruized the island, to this day we are best of friends and can call eachother with any problem at any time...Unfortunately, the couple of years of no contact and different paths, we each got married again and we are too far in our commitments to change. But...we agree that if we were single...things could work now.
2006-10-26 17:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok you guys are really scaring me here, my wife cheated on me I forgave her. Wanted to work things out, she didn't want to said she hadn't been happy for years in the marriage. Now I've told her that I still want us to remain friends, best friends. But now that I'm writing this she did say to me just yesterday that she didn't want to be my friend ok then. Well for the other part yes can fall in love again, just don't make that person pay for the hurt that was done to you by your spouse.
2006-10-26 18:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's possible, but very unlikely. If they were still best friends then why get the divorce in the first place?It doesn't make a lot of sense but I still hope it's possible.
2006-10-26 17:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by Violet 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am divorcing my husband because of something horrible that he did to me and my boys. But, we have four children together, so there is no way that I will ever stop loving him. I hate to admit this, but if he were ever to grow up and change his ways for good, I'd seriously consider seeing him again. And who knows...
2006-10-26 22:39:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jeanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I didn't want to be friends with my ex, but over the years, we learned to be civil to one another.
Fall in love again - you bet! I married a wonderful man who worships the ground I walk on. I think, if you keep your options open, you too will fall in love again. Good luck!
2006-10-26 17:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by Juanitaville 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋