My guy works at a strip club as a body guard for one of the strippers. I told him I would come see him one day since none of my friends were able to hang out. He said "No and that he wanted me to just wait till he got off work." Said he "didnt want me around that enviroment." This girl is a friend and seems to never talk to me when we all hang out. He claims they are just friends but What I dont get is why he wont let me go. I need to know if this is a sign of cheating.
2006-10-26 10:58:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is. The girl doesn't talk to you because she knows she's sleeping with him. It's obvious that they are messing around. Don't waste your time with him. Make sure your next boyfriend isn't a bodyguard for a stripper.
Let me just say this, all bodyguards for strippers aren't cheaters....but, MOST ARE! Becareful!
2006-10-26 11:06:48 · answer #1 · answered by brooklynchyck808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not cheating if you don't know about it. Only cheating if he is caught. have you caught him?? No seriously. Maybe he isn't cheating and just doesn't want you there. Don't believe he is until you know for sure. I am sure a lot of people will tell you he is but you don't want to ruin a relationship over a soemthing you have no proof of. give it time the turth will come out
2006-10-26 18:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by SuperSoldierGIJOE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a definite sign of cheating
but do not start rushing to conclusions
maybe he is embarrassed for you to enter a strip club , maybe he feels uncomfortable with you around woman stripping - who knows
my advice would be to ask him if you can meet the girl
say "prove to me you are not cheating"
and tell him if he is your guy he shoukd have no problem letting yourself go to the club
and how old are you
2006-10-26 18:05:04 · answer #3 · answered by catherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this question, you already know the answer... yes he is cheating on some degree... if he was not he would not care if you stopped by to him and why would she ignore you when in her presence.... always trust your instincts...
2006-10-26 18:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by oracle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋