Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

There is a girl at my school who I really like. She is actually my ex though that is debatable because she never officially said we went out. She was my first (real) kiss also and I have known her since I was in the 1st grade.

Lately I have been wanting to ask her out but I have not had the courage so far. Every time I see her she has her friends around (WHY do they have to travel in packs!?) She lives a 5 minute walk away from my house but whenever I visit I can never get to talk to her alone for a good long time.

I can't just ask her at lunch because I am a rather shy person and don't want to embarrass myself in front of her and her friends.

So what do I do? I need a detailed explaination, not just one sentance. Not asking for a script or anything but I need as many tips as I can get.

She may be moving soon and I want to at least ask her before that.

2006-10-25 10:57:32 · 7 answers · asked by asian_lad12 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm in love with a guy who i nvr met.we can't recall how we know each other.perhaps from a friend.we only know each other from the cyber world.i seen pics of him n goes webcam but i've not actually seen him in reality.we express our feelings tat we wanna be together but it always sounds like i want it more than he does.he said he is not good with words when it comes to expressing. i adore him not cuz of his looks but how he carries out himself, personality n his attitude. he's very hardworking and works hard to achieve his goals. but m i being rasional about this relationship?... i need reality check please.

2006-10-25 10:57:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the worst insult someone has ever said to you? Be honest!

2006-10-25 10:56:54 · 4 answers · asked by abercrombie_lover101 4 in Friends

I was supposed to say: "Is your daddy a theif?...No? Well who stole the stars from the skies and put them in your eyes?"

Instead I said: "Is your daddy a theif? No? Because I SWEAR I saw him shoplifting women's panties at the KMart across town."

Can I still win her over?

2006-10-25 10:56:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 10:56:19 · 2 answers · asked by lyd_franco 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Am I wrong, I dislike my nephew because ever since he was born I was left out. My momma uses my lunch money for school to buy him stuff. I have 6 brothers and sisters (not including the one who had the child) and they all agree with me because I's not right she is almost 30 had a child, single, and still living at home. I feel its not right for her and my nephew to be treated like queen and prince while me and my sibling must rotate babysitting because she wants to do all this other stuff. Plus she gets food stamps and won't let any of us but my momma to eat out of the refrigarator we have to go to my grandmother's house to eat.

2006-10-25 10:55:55 · 11 answers · asked by johnson-montgomery 1 in Family

I know someone that is a great person, but is unfaithful. His spouse knows about it, but just pretends it doesn't happen. Do you think that it's just not possible for some people to be totally faithful to their spouse? Please answer maturely and don't attack; this person is a family member of mine and is otherwise a wonderful person. Have you known people like this?

2006-10-25 10:55:49 · 29 answers · asked by TermiteChokinOnASplinter 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm single, never been married, no kids. When I met this man (labor day) he thought he was single with no kids too. Bottom line - amazing "once in a lifetime" romance.

He just found out that a one night stand had his child and then a week later found out that a girl he hung out with for a month had his baby too..a month apart from the other one (paternity test results for the first one, compared notes on the second one). Let me clarify for all those who can't follow - TWO BABIES from TWO MOTHERS in TWO MONTHS?!

He is going nuts with stress (obviously!) and so am I?! I think I love him enough to deal with this...is love enough or should I run like hell and avoid the drama I've been able to dodge in my life!? HELP!

2006-10-25 10:54:52 · 18 answers · asked by angela w 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 10:54:37 · 2 answers · asked by stanleyg 1 in Weddings

this week ive focused on asking this girl i like out. she said no the first couple times saying that she doesnt feel that way bout me cause i feel more like a brother than a boyfriend and it would feel weird. but after talking to my friends she decided to try it out for a week to see if i would make a good boyfriend. so i have to prove that i can. any suggestions i was thinking bout sendind her flowers before we go out to get some pizza with are friends.

2006-10-25 10:54:35 · 2 answers · asked by wat2do 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok but the thing is he hangs out a lot with our group and he is so nice. But i have never had a boyfriend and i'm not very good at talking to guys. Can u help me...just llike what should i do...should i get a friend to see if he likes me or what. and also my friend doesnt like really like him but she does think that he is hott.
help!

2006-10-25 10:54:08 · 9 answers · asked by CantTouchThis22 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 10:53:38 · 6 answers · asked by ARK BUILDER 2 in Friends

Let's say You met an older guy and u find him attractive and he's willing to give you money lets say between 5000 to 10.000 per month to have a no strings attached, relationship with you. is it wrong to be in that relationship?

2006-10-25 10:53:27 · 17 answers · asked by Kathy S 1 in Singles & Dating

has been gone on vacation for a week. What do you wives like to do to welcome your spouse home? Anything special? (Besides Sex! I already know he expects that.)

2006-10-25 10:53:24 · 14 answers · asked by yakimablueyes 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 10:52:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't know what to do! I told him I liked him and he said he liked me. Then the next day he had a gf! I cried and cried, and tryed to get over him! I still like him, just can't get over it. I wasted free period to help him move some cans from our school can drive! His gf saw us, she probably hates me! What should I do? I can't get over him, or the fact that he likes the girl that hates ME!

2006-10-25 10:52:03 · 6 answers · asked by peace ♥ music 6 in Friends

I have a bit of a problem right now...... I have tickets to the football game this weekend ( raiders vs steelers was a hard ticket to get )
and just got word from my wife that she arranged a sitter for sunday and wants to spend some time alone together.

she obviously forgot that my game was this sunday...... I am kind of torn as to what I should do because from what she told me she has planned I know she has spent some time putting this alone day together....... that being said I have been waiting MONTHS for this game and REALLY want to go.

Of all weekends why'd she have to plan it for this one?

2006-10-25 10:51:46 · 31 answers · asked by RedEye 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my partner and i have recently split up and although i dont wish to deny him access to our child i dont trust him to care for him properly and i do not want him to take him anywhere near his parents whit whom i have a long running argument and am currently involved with solicitors. he recently betrayed my trust and went behind my back when i let him look after our child for a morning and took him to see his parents. I have now decided to end our relationship but have always made it clear that i do not want to stop him from having access even though it took him 5 days to contact me and even then was not concerned about the c hilds welfare. he now says he has consulted a solicitor himself and has been informed that he can have as much access as he wishes and do what he wants with our child

2006-10-25 10:51:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-25 10:50:36 · 2 answers · asked by debbie c 1 in Friends

2006-10-25 10:49:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

do you like guys who write poetry ?
and they write you some, complimenting you
are you a fan ? yes or no ?

n state why if you wish....
thanks

2006-10-25 10:49:42 · 14 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

last address known130grand ave aliquippa.pen.15001 married d.egyud remarried late70's early 80

2006-10-25 10:49:18 · 2 answers · asked by degyud 1 in Friends

Alright I have a friend who I see at school every day. I really like her but not sure what to say. About a week ago I kinda made her mad a little bit by not doin gwhat she asked of me. So if your a girl what would you do? How can I fix this? Is there anthing I should do because I have already appologized?

P.S. I think she liked me before this happened but now I not sure. Any ideas of what I can do?

2006-10-25 10:48:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am only 19 yrs old and all of my life, I have tried to do the right thing. I have remained abstinent and I have put my focus more on my college work instead of guys, and thus far I have excelled. I do not want to sound conceded in saying this, but I consider myself to be a pretty girl. Not like the type that u want to screw around with for fun. For some reason, I have never had a bf. When I walk to class, the guys stare at me all of the time, but none of them have the courage to start up a conversation. I even had one guy asked me where my bf was, and they are in total shock when I tell them that I am single. I honestly get tired of being single, but I know that it is going to be extremely difficult to find a guy who is going to want a girl who is not into sex. BTW, I am an extremely openminded person, and I dont go out patronizing people to remain abstinent. It seems like the guys are into the easier girls, and I wonder if I am wasting my time by staying a virgin.

2006-10-25 10:48:25 · 10 answers · asked by I <3 you 1 in Singles & Dating

The other night we'd just been messing round at my place and my parents were out and then we started, like kissing and touching each other - she's my neighbours dog but my parents dont get on with hers. should we forget it happened or keep seeing each other

2006-10-25 10:48:22 · 11 answers · asked by Apollo C 2 in Singles & Dating

i do believe women on occasion try to take advantage of mens stupidity and there willingness to do whatever it takes to get into a girls pants but why do women get mad when a guy refuses to fall for it

2006-10-25 10:47:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 10:47:47 · 8 answers · asked by Lucy A 1 in Singles & Dating

i love my BF but i am tired of his immaturity and i cant take it anymore i just dont know what to do
i am KRAZY about him and want this to work
i even talk to him about how i feel and nothing changed! should i break up with him or should i just stay with him??

2006-10-25 10:47:37 · 7 answers · asked by Tiffany z 2 in Singles & Dating

My cousin same age as I am, well sometimes I think she's jealous of me. I'm not trying to be mean but I really do think this. Ever since we moved in together with my aunt she makes remarks to hurt me. In retaliation I just took it as a joke cuz I don't like hurting people. but I've given that up and have turned her words around to make her seem stupid. Example, My aunt always asks me not her to go shopping for the house or make sure to take something to the post office. My cousin then Laughed and said that My aun't asks me because I always do what she says, Meaning brown noser, I turned around and told her or " maybe you can't do things right that she depends on me alone. I felt bad but I was just ticked off that day. We're okay, me and my cousin now, but whenever I do something or When we visit cousins I would be talking and joking with them and she would just leer making me think that she's jealouse. My other cousin have warned me that She talks badly about me. ignore or fight back

2006-10-25 10:46:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 10:46:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce