i love my BF but i am tired of his immaturity and i cant take it anymore i just dont know what to do
i am KRAZY about him and want this to work
i even talk to him about how i feel and nothing changed! should i break up with him or should i just stay with him??
2006-10-25 10:47:37 · 7 answers · asked by Tiffany z 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you've already talked to him about what you want and what you expect and nothing has changed then it means he either has no respect for your wishes or is too immature as you mentioned to handle a relationship with you.
2006-10-25 10:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how he is being immature. is it that he doesn't want to work and plan for the future or does he just like to hang out with the guys occasionally and play play station. You need to sit down and talk to him, don't yell, just tell him what behavior it is that is upsetting you. Be specific, don't just say that you are immature, that is too vague. You also don't say how old you are. It is different if he is 17 than if he is 37. Talk to him about the future and then listen to what he has to say. If any relationship is going to work you have to be able to communicate and if you don't have that and he isn't willing to try then you are much better off alone.
2006-10-25 11:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by brendagho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the biggest mistakes anyone can make in a relationship is thinking they or time can change the other person. I'm not saying it's impossible, but you can't go in expecting it to happen. You either decide you can live with him the way he is and if he changes then it's just a bonus or you break up with him and find a guy who you feel better about.
2006-10-25 10:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by bldrjck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he cant grow up and start acting the way a boyfriend is supposed to act then you will have to leave him for some one less immature who you can have a good relationship with
2006-10-25 10:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go straight up to him and say "hey if you want US to work out listen to me i am sick and tired of your immaturity and if you dont change it aint gonna work out.. so its ur choiceright here and right now!
2006-10-25 10:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by summerhottie532 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a mature bf and enjoy life, that's what love is supposed to be.
2006-10-25 10:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by pay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really cant stand it the go you cant change anyone
2006-10-25 10:50:13 · answer #7 · answered by lilbabythree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋