i'm in love with a guy who i nvr met.we can't recall how we know each other.perhaps from a friend.we only know each other from the cyber world.i seen pics of him n goes webcam but i've not actually seen him in reality.we express our feelings tat we wanna be together but it always sounds like i want it more than he does.he said he is not good with words when it comes to expressing. i adore him not cuz of his looks but how he carries out himself, personality n his attitude. he's very hardworking and works hard to achieve his goals. but m i being rasional about this relationship?... i need reality check please.
2006-10-25 10:57:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please meet him first..
you gotta meet someone to feel love
you might think you love him
but trust me
you need to be physical around him and know his touch he smell his movements to know if its love
2006-10-25 10:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think you need to talk to him about how you feel. Just make sure the two of you are on the same page, and in the same book, as my boyfriend says. In fact, we also met through a friend and talked on the web all the time and we liked each other without even meeting each other. But we decided the best way to make things work was to meet in person, and once we did, we knew that connection we felt before grew a million times in that couple of seconds when we frist saw each other. And we are now happy together. So don't only talk to him about it, ask him if you two can meet in person. I hope great things will happen for you both! Good Luck!
2006-10-25 18:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by Poptart 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love comes between to people that "know" each other! Like the guy next door or at work....!
You are in lust... or some exaggerated kind of infatuation!
You really do need to check yourself if you think youv'e fallen for a guy you may have seen on your WebCam.
Get away from your computer and go outside or get a hobbie, it'll last longer!
Chance are that your looking at pictures of his son.
He is probably 55 and pretending to be younger so he can flirt with little girls and have Cybersex!.
2006-10-25 18:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound rational at all. Until you've spent time with someone face-to-face and really gotten to know them, you can't base a decision on what's happened over the internet. People are full of crap over the computer because it's easier to lie that way. You've got to spend some real time with this guy before you can even begin to know if you really like him, let alone love him. You're thinking with something other than your head and that's going to get you into trouble. Start to be a little more rational about this before you get really hurt. Not just emotionally hurt, but you don't know if this guy is some total freak, waiting to meet you and chop you into little pieces to add to his collection in a basement freezer. Snap out of it................
2006-10-25 18:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by fedupwithu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O.k. listen up Smurf, you want a reality check? Well here you go, first of all, you have never met this guy in person, how do you know he's hardworking? How do you even know he is who he says he is? And you know what this guy could probably be married and hitting on you. You said it sounds like you want him more than he does you, that should send up a red flag right there. And Smurf I believe in your heart of hearts you know this is not right, this guy is feeding you a line. Yes Smurf, he wants you alright, but for all the wrong reasons. Free yourself up so you can really love someone, someone who you can physically see and touch.
Hugs
Texas girl
2006-10-25 18:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you're not. You've never met him so al he says could be rubbish, and he doesn't say the same things to you, that you say to him. He wants a bit of cyber sex. Quite possibly finds you attractive and has affections towards you but if he's not saying the right things and doesn't wanna meet then it's not going anywhere is it!
2006-10-25 17:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what ever u feel, is right. however u should definetly have a video chat with him. but i am not sure u should be asuming soo many things about this person when u have never really talked to him face to face. thats why a video chat is a great idea. or try to meat each other at a starbucks or some other public casual place.
2006-10-25 18:02:23 · answer #7 · answered by me, myself and I 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do need a reality check. It is simply not possible to be genuinely in love with someone you have never actually met.
Meet up with him, go on a few dates - then see how you feel. Until then, don't get carried away.
2006-10-25 17:59:43 · answer #8 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just meet him in person.
At some point, you two will either end the romance (cyber thing gets dull after a while) OR you will take it to the next level and meet.
2006-10-25 18:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by tbonz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you guys spend that much time in the cyber world together,my feelings would be hurt that he has not asked to meet me in person.
2006-10-25 18:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by cat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how do you really know how he carrys himself if you only see him on the webcam,it could all be an act,i would try to meet him in this world and see how it goes,computers have a way of distorting reality
2006-10-25 18:02:20 · answer #11 · answered by boozer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋