Ok but the thing is he hangs out a lot with our group and he is so nice. But i have never had a boyfriend and i'm not very good at talking to guys. Can u help me...just llike what should i do...should i get a friend to see if he likes me or what. and also my friend doesnt like really like him but she does think that he is hott.
help!
2006-10-25 10:54:08 · 9 answers · asked by CantTouchThis22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know it may be very hard for many people 2 talk 2 a guy or start a conversation... to tell the truth i used 2 have trouble with that myself until just now when i met this 1 guy... he really boosted my confidence. it's kinda weird. but anyway your not alone 'cause over 45% of people have the same problem. so i can try 2 help u but i don't know if i can explain this right... just take a deep breath & try 2 think that he doesn't care what u do or say... i mean if it is something stupid or u start 2 get nerous or say um alot... just be yourself & everything should fall into place... or u can also try being a bolder, more passinote, & clever verson of yourself. those r some character traits boys tend 2 like but other than that be yourself. & just find something interesting 2 talk bout. that will help u a little. don't chicken out or be afraid 2 talk 2 him... i'm sure he is really nice. ^_^
i'm not really sure about the whole getting 2 know if he likes u or something like that 'cause i never really exprienced anything like that... but 1 many people at my skool do get their friend 2 ask them if they like them... infact that is what the guy i like did 2 me... he got 1 of his friends 2 sit by me at lunch (skool) actually i think he just ended up sitting there but anyway then he asked me if i wanted 2 go out with the guy i like though... & after that he said that his friend likes me... but whatever makes u feel more comfortable for u i would go with... or other answers u get 2 this question... im sure u will figure out something out with all of the answers. ^_^
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2006-10-25 11:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by take.my.hand. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consistent with hazard you should bypass up & consult from them first. some adult adult males are intimidating by way of a girl this is amazingly effective, etc. With how athletic you're, consistent with hazard they sense you over skill them in some aspects, extra effective than them,etc & they sense inferier. and infrequently, adult adult males get annoying while they think of a girl is actual appealing. i've got on no account asked adult adult males out first, i'm previous formed & choose to be asked out, yet while they seem shy, i will hint that i admire them. lol. you are able to ought to make the 1st pass for a communique.
2016-12-08 21:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by ricaurte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i have the same exact problem. my friend is really good with guys and she said what ever you do dont get your friend to ask him caz it will kind of scare him lol. plus i have done it my whole life and i t never works. wat i am doing i s since i am scared to talk to him in person caz im shy around boys i talk to him on aim or myspace its easier and then i am going to bite he bullet and talk to him in person!! i hoped i helped !! and remeber if u dont talk to him 40 years from now ur gonna be mad that u didnt so isay go for it! =] GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-26 12:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by blonde32392 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just to start a normal conversation and get to konw him, the eventually find out if he likes you, and if he starts to flirt and stuff like that then ask him out!!!!
2006-10-25 10:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like i say to every 1 thats scared, a bottle of rum does wonders to boost confidence
2006-10-25 10:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself. don't be someone you're not, that'll ruin it. and dont worry, if you like him and want to date him, you have to be comfortable with him right? so go for it! show him what you got!..dont be scared..show him that you're confident..i made the mistake of being way to shy infront of this guy i really liked and now we dont even talk anymore...so go for it!! and good luckkk
2006-10-25 10:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by aldkjasdk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out his interests and just talk to him about the things that interest him, and take it from there, he will realize that you are interested in him ( unless hes stupid) and ask YOU out!
2006-10-25 11:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by Latin Techie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be nervous, just remember he is not going to think that you are weird if you go up and talk to him, who knows he may like you too.
2006-10-25 11:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by Davy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he scare you as in intimidating or is it your afraid he Will laugh or tell you off
2006-10-25 10:58:12 · answer #9 · answered by dewaltfordtruckman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋