Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

not what I had expected. We have dated for 6 mos and every time we start getting close, like CLOSE, she runs and hides. We love each other a lot. She was crying her eyes out, said she was afraid going into the relationship that she would run back to her shell. Which she did. I told her I can't give her that much space and feel like we're still dating. So I told her today if she needed some space, take as much as she needed. If she wants something more, then go get it. If she wanted this to continue, then things had to change. I also said that if she's leaving b/c she's afraid of hurting me, that's the easy way out. I said, "If you leave, do it b/c you think it's best for you." (And she did) Is she just looking for more and afriad to tell me b/c she doesn't want to hurt me? Is she just hiding from her feelings (what I think) and if so WHY DO WOMEN DO THAT??? She said she always does this in relationships. Sound familiar to anyone? Any words of wisdom, advice, encouragement?

2006-10-19 09:22:34 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I'm getting married in a few weeks and my fiance and I agreed that we will have "entertainment" at our parties. I know what goes on at bachelor parties. What goes on at bachelorette parties? Are they just as wild? I don't care what she does becuase, hey its the last hoorah before we tie the knot. I am just curious about it.
i always hear about the guy whipping out the ol' hog and the girls sucking and taking rides on it.

2006-10-19 09:22:16 · 12 answers · asked by Mike Polite 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-19 09:21:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex girlfriend dumped me a month ago, i have not been sending her messages that i still love her and want to be with her but we have seen each other a couple of times to give back items when i have seen her i have acted up beat but she has acted like a brick wall i decided tonight to tell her my feelings ( over text cause she won't see me) and she has not responded. Do i acept the fact she don't want me or is she trying to seam like she don't care when really she does?

2006-10-19 09:21:50 · 24 answers · asked by Boney 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend told me that he was in such a bad mood yesterday that the reason he didn't show me any affection was because he just didn't feel like it. We've been together for a little over a month, but for the second time...we eneded up breaking up over the summer and now I'm afraid that his lack of affection is a sign of something even though he says it's not...a little advice from the guys please!

2006-10-19 09:21:29 · 7 answers · asked by kennedy977 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 09:21:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you think it is fair for men to take advantage of women and just use them for sex and pleasure???

2006-10-19 09:21:02 · 16 answers · asked by Megan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, I'm getting married in a few weeks and my fiance and I agreed that we will have "entertainment" at our parties. I know what goes on at bachelor parties. What goes on at bachelorette parties? Are they just as wild? I don't care what she does becuase, hey its the last hoorah before we tie the knot. I am just curious about it.
i always hear about the guy whipping out the ol' hog and the girls sucking and taking rides on it.

2006-10-19 09:19:26 · 11 answers · asked by Mike Polite 1 in Weddings

there's this boy i used to go with but we broke up, though he be with these ugly broads in my opinion (lol) he still keeps me around he's sweet cute and he's mad fun and the best boyfriend i've ever had and we are real cool friends, and to add to it he was like a big brother to me before he asked me out because my cousin and him are fake bro and sis like so I know everything about him so he cant play me but it's like if he broads ever walk up to me ima let them know what's real but they arent a problem to me real problem is he loves me and always triping over me thought we broke up but it's like he's torn dont know what to do and I'm feeling the same what to do...?

2006-10-19 09:19:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a good girl who is shy and quiet and these are the guys that hit on me and ask me out just wondering?I also tend to end up being attracked to them and their confidence. Why dont bad boys like bad girls?

2006-10-19 09:18:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 09:18:05 · 17 answers · asked by Hate Asians 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-19 09:17:17 · 10 answers · asked by Matthew H 1 in Singles & Dating

i usually never talk to people online i have never met but i made and acception with this one guy. hes super sweet and charmind and polite and i really care about him. he says hes going to come visit me over christmas. im all kinds of excited for that. my question is, is it possible to be im love with someone you have never met? i have more feelings for him than any other guy i have been with.

2006-10-19 09:17:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 09:16:48 · 25 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-10-19 09:15:40 · 17 answers · asked by cheerforchris 1 in Singles & Dating

i am in a serious relationship with a guy(married) but...i also am looking to divorce him to marry another man who knows of my marriage to guy number one.we have not met in person but spend hours talking and sending each other mail.we know that we want what each other wants.Now while waiting to be divorced from guy one and married to guy number 2 i have started two relationships with differnt guys who both know that i am currently married and plan to divorce and marry another man.Now in this time one guy has brought his children into our relationship and i spend many nights as a family with them.i am not getting attached just filling time till life moves forward to be with the man i will marry.and guy number 2 i see on weekends and we have such fun together he is always telling me to protect my heart but....seems to be getting more attached to me.like i said i am just filling a void till i go to see the man i plan to marry once i connect to him in sexual way i will no longer be free

2006-10-19 09:15:33 · 20 answers · asked by Juanita Tsangning 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-19 09:15:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

With the divorce rate at something like 60%, and the frustrating games and bullcrap of dating, what's the secret to maintaining a relationship or a marriage?

2006-10-19 09:13:51 · 24 answers · asked by koifox_104 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, last year since like a couple of month since school started, i really liked someone but was affraid to tell him, he knew i liked him cuz i flirted like crazy and everyone said he liked me back. this went on until the last month of school when i was tired of waiting for him to do something so i started going out with someone else. on the friday before the last day of school i decided to tell the boy i really like that i liked him since i had a b/f i had nuthing to lose. well it turned out that he liked me the whole time and was gonna ask me out,but i started going out with the other dude(when i said i was tired of waiting on him and went out with sum one else, i meant like a week before i told the dude i really liked that i liked him) well i didnt wanna be mean and just break up with the other guy. now this year i still really want that guy i really like but he got over me but he still flirts.what do i do because i really messed up? he is the only guy in my life that i want PLZ hel

2006-10-19 09:13:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you ask a girl out without being shy?

2006-10-19 09:13:15 · 16 answers · asked by Chaser 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend called this morning from another state saying her husband has left her, I would like to send her a gift to comfort her. Please give me some advice.

2006-10-19 09:12:24 · 5 answers · asked by jovialdream 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-19 09:11:11 · 18 answers · asked by thehiddenangle 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 09:09:19 · 26 answers · asked by Jaspen 1 in Weddings

Can anyone give me some suggestions on a song for my wedding party to walk down the aisle to?

2006-10-19 09:09:12 · 8 answers · asked by texas y'all! 3 in Weddings

Hi, I'm getting married in a few weeks and my fiance and I agreed that we will have "entertainment" at our parties. I know what goes on at bachelor parties. What goes on at bachelorette parties? Are they just as wild? I don't care what she does becuase, hey its the last hoorah before we tie the knot. I am just curious about it.

2006-10-19 09:09:02 · 14 answers · asked by Mike Polite 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend never seems to want to have sex with me. I do everything for him. I clean his house, cook his food, everything. I even do his homework with him. We sleep in the same bed. We even have condoms, but we have never had sex. I want to, but he won't do it. I want to know what might be his problem or what I should do differently.

2006-10-19 09:08:59 · 14 answers · asked by Wolf G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am very talkative and active in everything. For example I love to be outdoors. On the other hand he is quiet shy and pretty much stays to himself. I for one am not used to it and I don't think he likes me talking so much so how can we make our relationship greater than what it is? How can we communicate better if neither half way pays attention?

2006-10-19 09:08:55 · 9 answers · asked by cowgirl16 2 in Singles & Dating

Does the size of a man's ****** count?

2006-10-19 09:08:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can I veiw someones private profile(serious) I know I need to be in their freinds list but I am not but still want to view. This is seriously important. Thanks for the help!

2006-10-19 09:07:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-19 09:07:03 · 26 answers · asked by yaya 2 in Marriage & Divorce