My ex girlfriend dumped me a month ago, i have not been sending her messages that i still love her and want to be with her but we have seen each other a couple of times to give back items when i have seen her i have acted up beat but she has acted like a brick wall i decided tonight to tell her my feelings ( over text cause she won't see me) and she has not responded. Do i acept the fact she don't want me or is she trying to seam like she don't care when really she does?
2006-10-19 09:21:50 · 24 answers · asked by Boney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she dosent care got over it
2006-10-19 09:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by Caroline H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes dude, you now have the ability to date every other single woman on the planet.
She likely doesn't feel attracted to you right now, and may never again. So leave her be, and date other women, and enjoy yourself.
Once you do this, you will discover afew things
A) other women can be just as good if not better than your ex
B) You will stop missing your ex as much
C) Since you have stopped being an obsessed drama point in her life, and are now focusing your attention on other women, your ex MAY (probably will, but not always) want you back.
2006-10-19 16:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by D_Herz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how long you were with her for babe, but i think you should try and except the fact its over. I had the same situation with my ex. We fell out and i met someone else. Cos i was with him so long i wanted to stay friends, which was really hard. He wouldn't speak to me, then he tortured me with texts but now he's accepted the fact we're over and we're great friends. He still hates my new fella but that's to be expected really. Just let her go, if she wants to get in touch she will. Don't let her eat up your life x x x
2006-10-19 16:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by I-Love-My-Boys 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing. Let it all go. Leave her be and move on with your life. If she wants you, she'll find a way to have you (or she'll talk about it on Yahoo Answers). You have to do what's best for you though and pining away for a girl who doesn't even have the respect to text back, isn't someone worth waiting around for. Chin up, you'll be fine!
2006-10-19 16:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over her. If she doesn't love you any more then move on and find someone else. Just because one person turns you down doesn't mean the other 300 billion wont. There are plenty of fishes in the sea. You'll find someone trust me.
2006-10-19 16:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by jeratin 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are plenty more fish in the sea, if she has gone off you forcing her to see you is only likely to alienate her further. If she has repeatedly shown a lack of interest in you since she dumped you, despite your putting your heart on your sleeve, then it probably isn't worth wasting any more time on her.
2006-10-19 16:55:05 · answer #6 · answered by Rotifer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Denial makes people act weird including acting like they dont want someone. Follow your heart. Do you still want to try, even if it is worthless efforts? The small chance seems worth it, but I think that if she wants you, than she will come to you. Be patient
2006-10-19 16:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give her time and space and try to get on with your life to the best that you can. If she wants to get back with you she will come to find you and if she does not then you will know that it was not meant to be.
If you do not hear from her in time you will be able to meet someone else and be happy
2006-10-19 16:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truly there is a part of her that will always care for you because you guys were together, but at this point i think that yes you should accept the fact that you guys are over. sorry, but from a womans point of view, that is how i see it.
2006-10-19 16:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her then you shouldn't give. Tell her you need the closure. Being persistence's never hurt anyone.
Hey look at Urkle!!
2006-10-19 16:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by Courtney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll never know unless you ask her. my advice to you is to be straight up with your ex. tell her how you feel when your ready, ask her simple questions. it's better than to keep guessing. but if she don't like you and shes telling the truth then accept it and appreciate her thoughts and decisions. time will tell
2006-10-19 16:26:58 · answer #11 · answered by ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋