ok, last year since like a couple of month since school started, i really liked someone but was affraid to tell him, he knew i liked him cuz i flirted like crazy and everyone said he liked me back. this went on until the last month of school when i was tired of waiting for him to do something so i started going out with someone else. on the friday before the last day of school i decided to tell the boy i really like that i liked him since i had a b/f i had nuthing to lose. well it turned out that he liked me the whole time and was gonna ask me out,but i started going out with the other dude(when i said i was tired of waiting on him and went out with sum one else, i meant like a week before i told the dude i really liked that i liked him) well i didnt wanna be mean and just break up with the other guy. now this year i still really want that guy i really like but he got over me but he still flirts.what do i do because i really messed up? he is the only guy in my life that i want PLZ hel
2006-10-19 09:13:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go down on him. Jesus.
You crazy little drama queens and your overblown problems.
2006-10-19 09:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG we are SO going through the same situation! Write a pro/con list. Decide who is better through that. (Seriously, it will help). There is no sense in staying in a relationship where you don't love someone. However, if you do love your boyfriend and feel it is only a 'lustful' type thing with the other guy, then go for it. But remember, we as humans always want what we can't have. And when we get it...do we really want it? Ask yourself these questions. Hope this helps and good luck!
2006-10-19 16:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really messed up when you went out with the other guy.
but if you really want to be with the other guy, then u have to do one thing, break up with your boyfriend now. wait a month, and then go with the guy you like. if not, your boyfriend will be so heartbroken and then when he sees you walking wiht other dude he will make your life imposible.
you need to have patience next time lady.
by the way.. make sure that the guy you like, likes you back and want to be with you. if not u will be left out alone.
2006-10-19 16:19:34 · answer #3 · answered by chik_nice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, thinks like this you have to just come out and say it "this is not working out; let's see other people". do it quick before you're in too deep to back out. but don't just jump into another relationship right away. rumors will fly about you of being easy. so, wait awhile. date the guy you like; don't declare bf or gf just yet. all you're giving him is a date. dating gives you a choice to back out without any commitment. so, let your current bf down gently. it's not that bad of a mess.
2006-10-19 16:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look the world is full of guys like the ocean if full of fish. Let him go and go reel in another guy who is worth your time and affection. You sound like you have too much to offer for someone who has little to offer you.
2006-10-19 16:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. chica, just talk to the guy you like ask him if he'll go out with you once, and give you a chance. He may see what he passed up. if not he's a loser, and you're better off without him. ;)
2006-10-19 16:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Elizabeth Swan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not have a BF right now.........ASK HIM OUT! Its 2006 and there is no reason why a girl can't ask out a boy!! Just go for it!
2006-10-19 16:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by LolaCabana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just completely put it out there and tell him. Who knows, maybe it will work out? remember, things always happen for a reason.
2006-10-19 16:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by sea shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you still have feeling for him. and then mabey he will tell you that he does to. if you wait to long then the same thing might happen again.
2006-10-19 16:16:45 · answer #9 · answered by Sean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lmao as if you didnt expect to get all these responses lol, if i was a bloke i would have said what these are saying too!!!
2006-10-19 16:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋