Hi, I'm getting married in a few weeks and my fiance and I agreed that we will have "entertainment" at our parties. I know what goes on at bachelor parties. What goes on at bachelorette parties? Are they just as wild? I don't care what she does becuase, hey its the last hoorah before we tie the knot. I am just curious about it.
i always hear about the guy whipping out the ol' hog and the girls sucking and taking rides on it.
2006-10-19 09:22:16 · 12 answers · asked by Mike Polite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well What are you going to indulge in at your party? What is your lifestyle under the norm? Do you and your fiance' party often with others, do you have wild streaks in you or are you and have you led conservative lives together? I have been to a few diffrent types of Bachelor parties and my girl to Bachorette parties, I've seen wild and dirty and some that we just chilled and had a good time. So if your gettin freaky it's a good chance that she is too!
An ex of mine got married (and I know this girl gets freaky) yet her party was tame and the girls all did spa stuff and chick flicks with champagne. So who knows. She's choosing another lifestyle now so it's good for her.
However my girl went to one and two guys were there to entertain and she had full access to these guys, she said "Angie" ( not her real name) took them both at once! So thats friekin WILD to me!
I've been to a bud's party and it was worse than the movies, You would'nt of guessed this guy was gettin married, spent alot of money that weekend!
I really think that it's all how you 2 are directing your life, and the only last HOORAH it is , is that your partying single, you got your wife to party with now!! Good luck and have fun!
2006-10-19 09:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I guess some people do that, but I could never see myself having sex with another man that I didn't even know before getting married to the guy I love. I guess it's all depending on the type of woman. Your soon to be wife may just have a wild and crazy time, but that doesn't mean she would do that. I'm hoping she won't. I think that's just nasty. When it's that time for me I want to have a really fun and crazy time, but keep it clean too. I would never do anything to disrespect my soon to be husband.
2006-10-19 16:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You would be better of having a "joint" party. Thsi could eliminate the problems of a "wilding" issue. I have been to parties where we raffeled off hookers to the guests....I am told that the women's parties are worse than that. Women have very little contro when it comes to "pack mentality". One woman had a party and she got pregnant only to have the blessed event with a child of the wrong color...the marriage did not survive.
YOu are getting married to be with her...if you didn't get enough sport sex while you were single then maybe you shouldn't get married. One night of wild partying is not going to satisfy any urges you might have......think that over.
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Good luck and think about that joint party.
2006-10-19 16:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've been to quite a few bachlorette parties and never once has a stripper whipped out his ol' hog! Most girls don't want to see it, let alone, suck or take rides on it, especially if she's about to get married! And if you are really serious that you wouldn't care if your fiancee slept with the entertainment, that must mean you wouldn't be opposed to doing that yourself, I think your nuts!! Who needs to sleep with a dirty dancer if your about to get married???!!!
2006-10-19 16:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by Meg 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
entertainment is one thing, participating is another. I'm all for bachelor or bachelorette parties. But the look don't touch rule does apply. There is no last hoorah. That's what your last relationship was.
2006-10-19 16:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by breezygirl 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The Ole' hog? that is a little bit too wild.
2006-10-19 16:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As a reformed manwhore I can tell you that the bride usually have a list of fantasies she wants fullied. Its usually the same boring stuff. One girl five guys action and ends with us all cleaning the bathroom with toothbrushes.
2006-10-19 16:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think bachelor and bachelorette parties are a clear sign that the couple is not ready to get married and a gross sign of disrespect for one's partner. My husband is even more against them then me - neither of us had one - and it was so nice. I feel sorry for you both.
2006-10-19 16:31:39 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well yeah! Girls most diff know how to have fun! hahaha Watch yourself. Drunk girls get wild.
2006-10-19 16:26:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ohhhhh yes its fun......especially for the Bride to be ,since it will be her last time to be with any guy ....but noting nasty ops sorry it all depend who her friends are......don't feel bad if she loves you she will never do anything that is not you will not approve.congrats by the way.............
2006-10-19 16:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by Jazzy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋