My boyfriend never seems to want to have sex with me. I do everything for him. I clean his house, cook his food, everything. I even do his homework with him. We sleep in the same bed. We even have condoms, but we have never had sex. I want to, but he won't do it. I want to know what might be his problem or what I should do differently.
2006-10-19 09:08:59 · 14 answers · asked by Wolf G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-10-19 09:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by steve b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not having sex doesn't mean that he has a problem!
Maybe he just isn't ready yet, maybe he enjoys your company and personality so much that; Sex is not an issue for him.
Who knows he might be a virgin, or he might be a christian, there could be many reasons why. But the best way to figure it out is to simply:
Ask Him!
What have you got to lose? Sit him down after dinner and before homework and let him know how you feel, and ask him is there a reason that you guys have yet to be sexually intimate?
Maybe he is so caught up with school that he can't even think about sex right now or maybe he is saving himself for marriage - Only he knows so you need to ask him, otherwise you will resent him for not meeting your needs and that wouldn't be good for either of you!
Depending on his answer perhaps you can re-evaluate your relationship. If you feel that sex is a major part of what you desire in a relationship and he is not yet ready to get down like that with you. Maybe you should move on, or maybe his reasoning is because he doesn't want to confuse your current great relationship with SEX.
Either way respect him & yourself regardless of what his reason is.
2006-10-19 09:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by Just My Thoughts... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you actually making it obvious that you want sex or sending out subtle hints and hope he gets them. Remeber, men don't do subtle.
Tonight, put on your sexiest lingerie while he is in the shower or before he comes home. Do your makeup, do your hair. When he comes, take him into the bed and take charge of the situation. If he still doesn't want it then there is a problem
2006-10-19 09:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
How can you call him your boyfriend if he's not having sex with you, EVER? This doesn't make sense. Move on, your wasting your sex life, and your nothing but a maid to him.
p.s. walk around in front of him in the nude, if that doesn't do the trick, then God knows what will, lol.
2006-10-19 09:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Maybe hes just not ready, give him some time, and he'll be ready soon. Just don't force him, trust me it's not a good idea.
2006-10-19 09:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by ○◘•DaNdAnA•◘○ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes gay and hasnt come out the closet. ignore him and dont do **** for him, i bet hell start acting differently and start appreciating you and want to have sex with you.
2006-10-19 09:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by CuriousJorge07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just hates you and he is just keeping you as a slave. Or he is gay.
Or he is cheating on you.
Maybe he doesn't know how.
How old are you and your boyfriend? Maybehe doesn't think you two are old enough.
2006-10-19 12:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think rather than asking yahoo questions you should ask him!. maybe he has a reason but is too embarrassed to tell u. but speaking to him and discussing it is the only way forward.
good luck!
2006-10-19 09:13:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
u r just rushing it 2 fast, give it time and then maybe in a year or so, he would want to.
2006-10-19 09:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by Becca K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, some would say you should get married first... but that's just us old fashioned moral types... the rest would probably say he's gay.
2006-10-19 09:12:24 · answer #10 · answered by In the light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT COULD BE ONE OF THREE THINGS
1.HES GAY
2.HES GETTING IT SOMEWHERE ELSE
3.HES A GENTLEMAN AND WANTS TO WAIT UNTIL HES MARRIED
OH AND YOU SOUND MORE LIKE A MAID TO HIM THAN A GIRLFRIEND
2006-10-19 09:13:43 · answer #11 · answered by mzrobsn414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋