2006-10-19 09:17:17 · 10 answers · asked by Matthew H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't and you shouldn't
2006-10-19 09:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it just happens. the best thing to do, i think is let it happen the way its meant to. its all for a reason. i myslef right now am in a now 5 month long relationship...we've already committed ourselves to each other, i know i love him more deeply than ever i have before, and to be honest...it is a little nerve racking...just because its sudden, but then again everything weve done so far has been sudden. ive already moved away from home to live with him and we have an apartment together, he got us a kitten, and weve already been through possibly having a baby *fortunatly did not though* but everyday its a possiblity that it could be the end. and i know this only because of hard lessons learned in the past. but everything feels so right its hard to believe it could be wrong. i go with it and take the blows as they come...im just one of those people who can endure it and IF i happen to get hurt again, so be it...another lesson learned! dont fight it...accept it and run with as far as you can cuz you may not get another chance. otherwise...to avoid it...put a wall up, or keep it casual. make sure you dont get monogomous.....
2006-10-19 16:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by *wonderful lady* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't just fall in love, love takes time to grow and nurture, so the better question would be "how can you keep from falling for someone too fast, easy and hard" that way you won't get a bunch of answers challenging love, and I can assure you those who respond like that are much older and wiser
I personaly am getting tired of people thinking love is lust, lust leads to bad relationships
2006-10-19 16:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make 3 lists that only you will see. In one, list things you absolutely need in a relationship. In another write things you can't handle at all. In the 3rd, write things that don't matter one way or the other. When you meet a girl, it will help you decide if this is the one for you. (Don't show her the list)
2006-10-19 16:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
here is a great book to read. ARE YOU THE ONE FOR ME.
It will help you figure out what you need in a partner and it will help you eliminate guys quickly before you start to fall in love
2006-10-19 16:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just trynot to think of that person so much you need to have some type of space let them now you wont to go slow
2006-10-19 16:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
up your standards.dont be willing to have feelings for anyone that even looks your way. take time to really know the person.
2006-10-19 16:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by Rea 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take control and responsibility of your heart/emotions.
2006-10-19 16:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep goin out
2006-10-19 16:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, define love.
2006-10-19 16:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋