I am very talkative and active in everything. For example I love to be outdoors. On the other hand he is quiet shy and pretty much stays to himself. I for one am not used to it and I don't think he likes me talking so much so how can we make our relationship greater than what it is? How can we communicate better if neither half way pays attention?
2006-10-19 09:08:55 · 9 answers · asked by cowgirl16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi I met a shy guy and instantly fell for him. I was afraid that I terrified him but he liked that I was talkative and took the lead. That was 12 years ago. We are still married and he is still shy but less so. Sometimes shy guys need gals like us to get them out of their shells. Just be yourself and he may open up. mine did! Good Luck! Penel
2006-10-19 09:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by n c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay lets get one thing straight You are great and the reason I asked my question was because I realize i have a prblem and i want to fix it. I do not now nor have i ever wanted to leave you. I love you and I always will. I love the fact that you are out going and you like to talk because that will take up my slack. I do not want you to change but instead I want to improve myself for you. Not because you ask me to not because you want me to but because I love you and I never want to have another fight with you ever again
2006-10-19 16:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by shycountryboy85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex will always open up a man and instill confidence in him, this is only good advice if your over 18 of course, if not do something together that makes him feel accomplished, not sure what that is because I always went for the sex route, I was somewhat shallow in my younger years..... but always honest, still am unfortunately
2006-10-19 16:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are talkative and outgoing. that will open it up and in time he will come out his shell. the key is to be who you are and he will soon get used to it and go with the flow
2006-10-19 16:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about his interest to see what he likes and loves to do or not to do. Find his wild side, go out.
2006-10-19 16:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youll just have to take the first step and take it nice and slow he will come around.for now communicate with your eyes.
2006-10-19 16:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by lynn m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes obviously not interested in you or have nothing in common so i would say lose the loser and move on to someone more like yourself.
2006-10-19 16:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by CuriousJorge07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move slowly and allow him to be comfortable with what he thinks is his idea....take charge but don't allow him to know you're in the driving seat
2006-10-19 16:13:26 · answer #8 · answered by Grandfather Oak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just remain open... if he likes you as much as you put on.... then he will come around.
2006-10-19 16:13:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋