I am a good girl who is shy and quiet and these are the guys that hit on me and ask me out just wondering?I also tend to end up being attracked to them and their confidence. Why dont bad boys like bad girls?
2006-10-19 09:18:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For the same reason "Good Girls" go for the "Bad Boy" type. It is the draw of the "unknown" that is the biggest attention grabber. That person is just the polar opposite of you, does things that you yourself maybe dream about doing but can't because it is "bad", and being with them lets you live vicariously through them.
2006-10-19 09:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The Challenge. Bad girls give in so fast the there is virtually no challenge. Who wants to stay where so many have parked before. That doesn't mean they can't change. Once they have given in, then there is no interest.
Good girls are a challenge because of the chase. Anticipation of the rewards, when they breakdown and give in. Not to mention, the first-time sex with a newby. The challenge is there a little longer until it becomes routine.
Almost all girls and women find a bad boy, of some sort, an attraction. Smart girls don't give in, we do... sometimes. . . fantasize!
2006-10-19 09:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by believer 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Because NICE girls are easy prey and bad girls are probably asumed dirty. It's normal for women to be attraced to confidence but there's alot of not so confident nice guys out there that can play the badboy part and be a good catch. Some guys are afraid to be shot down or rejected and think women have heard enought pickup lines. So they wait and figure if you want to talk to me I'll talk to you.
Just my opinion.
2006-10-19 09:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by Just Me baby 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
all good girls want a bad guy and vice versa so they can see what life is like on the other side because all shy girls have a bad side just waiting to come out lol
2006-10-19 09:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by vomissie 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Hey I have the same problem and I too am attracted to bad boys. IN my opinion we compliment each other and provide for an even balance.
Not only that we good girls can help shield that bad boys image when he deems it necessary.
oh girl - now you got me thinking about my thug - gotta go I'm calling him
2006-10-19 09:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by Jazz 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Maybe their 'badness' is a show because they are intimidated by the world. Or maybe you represent the good things they remember. Everyone is different, you'd have to ask each guy why they behave the way they do.
2006-10-19 09:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They like to be in charge...but don't let it get out of hand. Bad/independent girls tend to scare some guys.
2006-10-19 09:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way. ive always been a pretty quite shy down to earthy type of gal...especially compared to other girls ive known and been around...and i seem to be like a big light for "bad boys" for some reason. i duno...its a cuteness that we possess that "bad girls" no longer have! >:) thinkin their all that and all...bad girls are also usually annoying, loud, obnoxious, and slutty. not ALL, just most!
2006-10-19 09:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
maybe because the bad boys would have to deal with the bad girls attitude, so they would rather have the quiet ones, trust me i know how u feel......
2006-10-19 09:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quiet and shy girls are the bad boys easy target!!!
Think about it this way.....A hungry tiger will hunt/kill a lost and injured deer before it attempts to hunt a healthy herd of deer.
Bad boys don't want to have to work hard to get a girl they feel they can and will control. Bad girls will give them an a$$ chewing if they try to F**K with them. It's that simple.
Next time a bad boy hits on you, tell them to keep moving along, your not interested in anything they have!!!! LOL
2006-10-19 09:52:21 · answer #10 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 5⤋