i usually never talk to people online i have never met but i made and acception with this one guy. hes super sweet and charmind and polite and i really care about him. he says hes going to come visit me over christmas. im all kinds of excited for that. my question is, is it possible to be im love with someone you have never met? i have more feelings for him than any other guy i have been with.
2006-10-19 09:17:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it's possible. The same thing happened to me, and we're getting married next year.
2006-10-19 09:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very possible to fall in love online. The problem is that once you meet the person they might NOT be who they appear to be.
I have done some online dating and there are some great guys out there and also there are crazy creepy guys out there.
It sounds like you live a long ways from him. You need to be very cautious when he visits. The most charming guys can be rapists or murderes. Or he just might be a wonderful guy and perfect for you.
Just be very careful. Meet in a very public place in day light.
It is really better to meet someone soon after chatting because you can fall in love quickly. Nine times out of ten you won't mesh with a guy. If you are fortunate this will work.
Be very careful and have an open mind and heart, Because once you meet everything can change.
2006-10-19 16:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I always preach being careful about people you meet on the internet, the same thing happened to me. I met my b/f in a chat room 7 years ago. I fell in love with his wit and creativity. He even wrote me a poem. Yes, it is possible to fall in love that way. It may even be better because you love the soul of the person without looks getting in the way of seeing the real person.
2006-10-19 16:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by Joanne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met a girl a while back who I only know online, and we are very much in love! We are planning on meeting this January, Lord willing. We aren't officially dating yet, because I do believe it's best not to date someone until you meet them in person. But we are deffinatly planning on dating, and I really believe things are going to work out.
Still, always remember to be careful with people you meet online. If you meet them in person, take a friend with you and meet in a public place. It never hurts to be careful, no matter how much you love or trust someone.
2006-10-19 16:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by The Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely. I just started dating on-line, found a couple of assholes, but now am really interested in this one guy. He is the sweetest guy that I have met. So yes, I do think that it is possible. You guys already know the most intimate details about each other, and have a great friendship. That is the first start.
2006-10-19 16:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by sea shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are in some kind of love. There is no way to tell until you meet him. It is possible to find love over the internet, because there is less pretension than say, the bar scene. Be happy, go for it. Just make sure you meet him in a public place until you are sure he will not harm you. Be careful!
2006-10-19 16:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by noambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are an adult, and not the potential victim of a pedophile. Please, no matter what you think of him, DO NOT send him a penny and if he does come to pay you a visit, please meet him only in public places until you've been in each other's company a number of times. I am all for online dating, but you have to be smart about it. You could otherwise be opening yourself up for a world of hurt. If he's really on the level, he'll understand your caution! If he's insistent on meeting you at your home or whatever, that's a red flag.
2006-10-19 16:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OHHH YES... I fell in love with a man i met online and we didnt meet until 2 years later and now we are getting married
2006-10-19 16:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Cassey L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is very possible. I work with a woman that met her husband over the internet. She moved 1000 miles to be with him. They have been married for three years now. Yes hon, very possible.
2006-10-19 16:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...you may be infatuated...you may be in love with the idea of being in love...you may love what you know (or think you know) about him...
...but until you've spent time together and gotten to know one another, actual love won't have an opportunity to form or blossom...there's just TOO much you cannot know w/o ever having met him...
2006-10-19 16:20:34 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋