Have you ever still liked/loved your girlfriend and not wanted to kiss them?

Question

My boyfriend told me that he was in such a bad mood yesterday that the reason he didn't show me any affection was because he just didn't feel like it. We've been together for a little over a month, but for the second time...we eneded up breaking up over the summer and now I'm afraid that his lack of affection is a sign of something even though he says it's not...a little advice from the guys please!

Answer 1

don't take it personally. it probably means something that has nothing to do with you is bothering him. sometimes guys don't wanna do anything, including kissing their gf.

Answer 2

It is possible. Men often equate affections with sex. When we are in a bad mood, sometimes sex is the furthest thing on our mind. You might want to communicate your expectation with him and also ask him what is bothering him, but not in a confronatational way. He'll just back away from you further if he feels like being nagged.

Have to open up the commuication first, the affectionate part will be easier after that.

Answer 3

Well I personal think he's seeing someone else but it could be what he says he mite have not been happy I have been that way and still cared same As you would be I'm sure just wait it out you'll know if there's something more if this keeps up ya he's cheating of at least coming up with a way to that's probably what's really on his mind

Answer 4

Perhaps he does not like to show affection when he is not in a good mood. Why are you trying to read something into it? Trust him an believe what he says unless he gives you a reason not to.

Answer 5

well if this goes on for a few days then he is probably going to break up with you. But if it was only today that it happened then dont worry about it.

Answer 6

yes

Answer 7

yeah sometimes....